tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669308946075251610.post7308335471826287074..comments2023-11-03T06:54:54.312-04:00Comments on A Diva's World Amongst Madness!: To BE or Not to BE the Bigger Person?Faviolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07490481596533043569noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669308946075251610.post-76006566511761815282010-04-14T11:56:12.843-04:002010-04-14T11:56:12.843-04:00Oh and I disagree with the Anonymous commenter,
...Oh and I disagree with the Anonymous commenter, <br /><br />I do not believe in holding grudges but I also do not believe in being walked all over. If you tend to forgive people who do messed up things then they will never forgive themselves. What if you do forgive someone who has done the total DONT to you and you think they going to sit and reflect and forgive themselves>>> NOPE...<br /><br />Some people are worth working things out with and forgiving, and some people are just evil, deceiving and or inherited bad character that I would prefer not to deal with.Cristina Lexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332818286602349728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669308946075251610.post-49171641978389880702010-04-14T11:52:43.704-04:002010-04-14T11:52:43.704-04:00I personally have come to the realization that I j...I personally have come to the realization that I just do not forgive people for fucked up antics any more. I just dont. And on top of that, if your character is that bad that you would jeopardize our friendship or relationship, I will quickly proceed to dismiss you and move on in my life. <br /><br />I have had some experiences recently with certain persons whom I thought were a friend to me only to find out that their life is just filled with Drama and I was constantly being talked about and put into situations I had no dealings in. Thus causing me to quickly end a friendship and move on with my life. And NO I DO NOT FORGIVE THEM! They are just completely fucked up mentally unstable individuals.Cristina Lexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332818286602349728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669308946075251610.post-85220683520031316592010-04-14T11:30:59.019-04:002010-04-14T11:30:59.019-04:00It's so many different directions this post st...It's so many different directions this post started to go in that I will try to focus on what I believe is the main focus for this topic and that is FOREGIVENESS. I believe that regardless of the act it is important that we all forgive just as we would want Christ to forgive us, which he will. The next step in that foregiveness process is for the person who has done wrong to forgive themselves. I don't believe that just because someone ran a foul on you that you reserve the rate to be angry forever or hold onto regards (negative and the like) towards them. The most one can do is foregive (then remember the situation) and do what you can in a positive and proactive manner to make sure it doesn't happen again. <br /><br />The constant grudge can be seen as a sign of immaturity and reflections of a lack of growth from the individual. I also believe that you can forgive someone (internally) and not make that person aware of it. Ok, #thatsallihave, for now...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669308946075251610.post-86676675803455738442010-04-14T11:24:57.533-04:002010-04-14T11:24:57.533-04:00Sometimes I wish I had the ability to be selective...Sometimes I wish I had the ability to be selective with my forgiveness because as you said everyone doesnt deserve to be forgiving because everyone isnt remorseful for their actions. Being the bigger person I feel is a whole 'nother aspect tho I can be respectful and still conduct business and still not like you, still be mad etc. Only thing with me is if we were ever cool ill get over it and just adjust how i deal with you from now on. If I never liked you in the 1st place if you never utter another word in my direction it will be too soon. I tend to turn the other cheek alot but i have to be honest that just leaves you vunerable to being smacked on the other side of your face.Mo Bettahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05257102785291827323noreply@blogger.com