A Diva's World Amongst Madness!

Is It STILL About Color?

2011-06-03T08:08:00.006-04:00

The other day, this film was brought to my attention by an old classmate. Ten minutes in, I was already over it. It's soo weird watching somethings. It's as if, I live in an other America. I swear. Yet the one thing I picked up, throughout my ten minutes were..

"Hurt people, HURT PEOPLE"

What mother would really pass that on to their child? "Lawd, thank g-d she's light skinned" ..Really?! lol Please, don't spread and past down ignorance. I thought that slave mentality was dead w/ Halle, Stacey Dash, Oprah, Michelle Obama etc. People would rather they'd sit in a tub of bleach, than love themselves. Wow! I have no words for that. How can someone else love you, if you don't even LIKE your damn self?!?! I can't even sympathize.

I've been brown, all my life. When summer comes, I get darker. I don't hide from the sun, or only go out at night. I've got red undertones, and I'm proud. Black cherry cinnamon walking. I was even more appalled, by the men on the video. Black men, aren't all like that. I've been fortunate, to feel loved, cherished, and appreciated by all the black men I've met. Since I was a little girl, I was made to feel pretty. Like all girls should. I was never made to feel slighted or inferior. A cycle is a cycle, because people keep it going. Get a new focus!

Dark Girls: Preview from Bradinn French on Vimeo.

Is Character at an all time low in 2011?

2011-06-01T17:40:00.010-04:00

Looks like I'll have to retire from my brake, to get back to y'all. I know. How rude of me.
A friend of mine prompt this post, through a series of tweets today.

"Do you think people change? Honestly, do you?"

"I dont believe people change, I just think people reveal who they really are."
-@Twotonedc

What do you think? I believe that people can change. It's called growth. Development. You can become a better you, if you choose. Or maybe I have a faith in others, that need not exist. I guess, I'm an optimist. In regards to human nature. Anything else, is slightly depressing. I would than, have to be willing to admit some people are hopeless. That some character cores, are just that dark. Especially when coming from a man. (Not saying that his tweets were in no direct regards to other men) I would figure they're more aware of the bullshit levels. So if they lack hope.. sheeesh!

If people just "reveal who they are" ..who are you really? A liar. Un-loyal. A cheater. Immature. Spiteful. Selfish. Without an inkling of hope, to be better? Is that what it is in 2011? Yikes! Y'all must want me to be celibate. Or quit black men. (I kid.. I kid.. lol) I just choose to believe in the spirit of people. Maybe more than they do themselves. A person can mess up. Hell.. be a walking series, of let downs. But there's always a way up. There has to be. Unless they just quit on themselves. Growth can be minimal, or continuously elusive. I rather that, than the belief it doesn't even factor in.

To think that your conscience, stops you from being an awful person. Is to admit that there's a lot of awful people. I don't think I'm ready to admit, that there's a lot of fucked up individuals in this world. Than there isn't.

"We tend to have reasons not to do something, because we dont want to become who we are supposed to be." -@Twotonedc

Who are you supposed to be? A fucked up person?!?! Are you that person? When it's easier for you to lack character, heart, consideration. It's easier to be manipulative, shady and selfish. Proud of that "I don't give a damn" attitude. That's who you are? Are people really proud to be that person? I can't believe that. That would be soo depressing. Fucking scary, even. Walls would be built, too tall to climb. Kill yourself trying. I refuse to give up on the spirit of people. I rather take that statement, an think the opposite. Maybe people purposely mess up, in order to dodge being great. Because once you're there, you have something to lose. Leaving you now vulnerable. It's easier to cop out an run, than stand tall and feel. Put yourself on the line. You're probably a great man or person, if you'd allow yourself to be.

But hey.. if I'm wrong..? Than it'll be a hell of a lot easier, to filter through people. Forget three strikes. Mess up once?! It's a WRAP! Deuces. You are who you are, and you can't be trusted.

2011-03-19T03:00:00.003-04:00

It's def been a MINUTE since I've blogged. Because quite frankly, who does anymore? Didn't even remember my eff'n password! An I've refused to blog about my actual relationship, unlike soo many others. Hence my absence. I guess, i just wanted to peek in an say hi to anyone that cared. So much has happened since the last time we spoke. A part of me wish I was as green as the 25yr old me. Yet, that innocence, optimism, and hope in people is all gone.

I've learned a lot about myself and others. You can always navigate the situation your not leading. Never fails. But once in it... than awe sh*t! You'll forgive the very things that you said, you'd NEVER! And anyone will say anything to get/keep you. Regardless of if it's at someone else's expense. Even if I'm not responsible for your feelings, to an extent I feel you. Cause often, we're too careless. I pride myself in my over view of things. I always rationalize a situation, from the other parties stance.

Impulse is great. Yet at most times, not smart. I rather "over think" than to sit and be thought of as "f&cked up" ..honestly. I have this perception on MEN that I hope won't get tainted. Pussy is pussy, but only a child is eager. A man is never thirsty. I'm attracted to a strong mental. That basic shit won't phase him. It's soo damn sexy. Just to be proud of him.. off mere character alone!!! That's a MAN! I don't want you, if I can't trust you. An I'm too old to babysit. Money should never be what lights up your heart. That undeniable feeling of loyalty. That.. WE GOT THIS! (feeling) Is amazing..

Venture

2011-01-12T07:01:00.003-05:00

I look in her eyes an see a million tears
..Ducks red and swollen..
from preeminent fears.
Battles
Which parallel emotion and pride..
Gives way as to why her demons collide.
All for the moment an none for the road.
A clear reason, her story is seldomly told.
All for the show an none for the take.
The weary's allotted much for the wait.
Much for the doubt
Tons for the pride
Your heart's exchanged
Go figure
..they lied..
Walls built up just to tear back down
Who signs up for the merry go round?
"I'm to old for this shit"
Rants
Spewed out by those who quit
Those who shared the common bond
Love in lust then venture on

New year New Men

2011-01-03T09:12:00.005-05:00

#1. "Fellas in 2011 fellas stop doggin women and women stop calling every man a liar and a cheater and women stop trying to talk to niggas who's taken let's practice being committed my grandparents been married for 50th years I'm tryin to do that"

#2. "ONLY resolution is to be a better Father!"

Yesterday I saw a lot of statuses by men, that just made me proud. So many people wish for wealth an self, everyday. Yet they're not good people, or the best they could be. People will use an manipulate others, for the mere sake of being bored. Every thing's all fun and games with our generation, but look who's paying for our bad habits. We are, along w/ everything we touch!

The reason why it's hard to find loving, honest, successful, young black relationships. The reasons why your four yr old acts like they're fourteen. The reason grown adults are going back an fourth degrading one another over the internet. All of these things my parents wasn't having. My mother would say women don't act like that. My father would say "You are a child, this doesn't concern you" ...an I played. I was allowed to be a kid. That term "This is grown folks business" doesn't exist anymore.

I think all men know how to love. Yet for some reason, they choose not to. They rather use people and hurt others. If every thing's about you, what exactly are you contributing. Is that your character? If you had no money, would your heart be full. Would the folks around you want to stay? Are you a good person? Anybodies "situation" can change in an instance. You can be rich and well off tomorrow. But if you fell off, who would catch you amidst the sorrow? You can't buy love or genuine loyalty.

Dear Faviola

2011-01-02T13:30:00.006-05:00

Dear Faviola,

It's officially 2011 babe, I LOVE YOU! You just turned 26 and you're in a great place. 2010 was something else! Haiti was a mess, and your friends got you through it. You boarded more planes than a little bit. Who knew Los Angeles would be your second home? You're definitely not the same woman who entered that year, as who left it. A little less greener, and a lot more serious about your wants. Realizing your love for someone never left you complacent. You've never backed down from what you've believed in.

That year was the year of no tolerance. If someone didn't bring joy into your world, you cut them off. Dead weight will create a dead mind-state and, that goes for negative energy as well. Learning what folks to keep at a distance was a blessing. You never was into trends or ignorance. Some of the bullshit people perpetuated was not entertaining nor cute. An I adore you for remaining you. The basic b*tch is taken!

Love was and will continue to be enlightening! The person you give your heart to can tend to disappoint you at times. How you deal with it, can factor in so many things. I'm proud that you never let emotions get the worst of you. You told him how you felt, instead of every social network. Cause at the end of the day, he's all that who matters. Don't ever change that about you.

Like is NOT Love!

2011-01-02T09:45:00.011-05:00

New year folks! I've missed y'all, so let get it...

It's cold out in the heart of winter. And I've noticed one thing, it's cuffing season! Everyone wants someone to keep them warm. But how can you look, when your not even sure yourself. Here's a fact in life. If you settle early, you'll settle later. Why are you walking on egg shells, if you don't even know this person? If they're going to like you, shouldn't you be yourself? I'll let you know from the beginning, I'm a brat but I'm honest. Sarcastic but loyal. Blunt, yet the biggest baby you'll meet. I'm not for everyone. You may need a basic breed. Yet that also goes for most people. They just realize it, five months in.

If we must play the "Blame Game" it's both of your faults. It's ok to act like this as kids, but uhhh.. grow up. People's main excuse is "Oh but I like him/her". Keyword is "LIKE" here people. You can like just about anyone. I really don't think you understand that. Like is not LOVE. You just like that person like I like chocolate. And not even so because, (lets be honest) I'll shut down time for Hershey. I promise you, that all the flaws you see in the beginning, will be the reasons why you leave them. Usually works that way. Yet, you rather have someone than be alone. Wouldn't you rather be happy?

Everyone has a love language. You have to know what you need because, it'll take you farther than you believe. If you don't know what makes you happy. Can't quite expect someone else too. If you can't TELL them. Expect no growth. Unless, we've embarked on the latest tests on telepathy. I've realized in life, people will distort facts to make them happy. When they clearly know better. But do you want to be happy for a moment or life? If it's not going the way you want it, let it go. Understand the moment for what it was, and nothing more. That person may genuinely like you but, so may the next. That maybe the perfect situation for you.

If I tell you five times, that I don't like something an you do it again?! You just clearly disregarded what I said or didn't give a F**k. It is that simple. Don't make excuses for someone else.

Not & The Best Love

2010-12-08T09:00:00.004-05:00

I was up late last night, an things flowed to me as I tweeted. Here's a poem an some words in case you missed it...

"NOT"

Not any voice matters..
not every thought provokes..
not every foul is malice..
not every thought is spoke..

Not every heart is broken..
not every person loves..
not every heart is open..
not every love's a drug..

Not every person matters..
not every person cares..
not every person's loyal..
"Not Every's" why it's rare

The distance gone is measured..
the facts get blurred w/ lies..
the hope for things yet ventured..
is the reason why we try..

"The Best Love.."

The best love is made of..
lip gloss an shape-ups..
panties an fitted's..
pumps an the sixes..

The best love is made of..
scarfs an no make-up..
ignoring texts to lay up..
kisses when you wake up

...To be continued

Idol Mind

2010-11-23T23:09:00.009-05:00

An idol mind can ruin hearts
silence joy an implode sparks
Take away all that you know
Impose it's thoughts and doubt your growth

Come so far to go back now
Idol thoughts have no know how
No distinction for the better
crumble pride with any measure

stumbles past dear logic's door
few reasons they don't talk no more
One lives on thoughts of wrong and right
thee' other betrays the heart and sight

Either way you measure up
an idol mind is far from luck
it's far from hope
it's far from love
an idol mind's an evil drug...

                 ~Fav

I Dare You

2010-10-28T00:40:00.004-04:00

We finish when I'm done
&
I dare you make me cum

I dare you
....not to love it
Just one touch
Will make you cuff it

I dare you
...not to miss me
I dare you
...not to fiend

I dare you not to live this ever going dream

You dare me
...not to flex it
or even throw it back

360 on the tip
without dismounting
how bout that?

Somethings are meant an counted
Somethings are understood
Somethings things I barely speak of
are the things I prolly could

NOTE: This is what happens when you're daydreaming at work! Lls Anything pops into your mind.

Save Her! Don't Inherit her behavior

2010-10-27T21:57:00.006-04:00

I love good friends! You can learn from them, and grow with them. Just don't let them ruin you. Some people go through things, so you don't have too. But that doesn't necessarily mean you'll HAVE to. We're so on edge for what could happen, that we don't give way for what would happen. We tend to hold our loved ones so close that we too, tend to carry their burdens. They say, God won't give you more than you can handle. That doesn't mean, aid ALL your friends in shambles.

So many women have friends in tough situations that, they too are on defense. Every situation is as different as the parties in it. I can say to myself.. "I can learn! Be a realist, an not let naivety consume me". Cause lets be honest. Ain't nothing worse, than a dumb bish who swears it won't happen to "her". While it's literally panning out to be. *cues LAUGH* Though as hard as we try, we can't shield our lives from bitterness.

"Oh, Well! Tell her fall back. Caught up in some moe sh*t, tell her call back. Tell her get a man that ain't cheating on her ass, with a girl that I know.
Yea! Tell her all that.." -Drake

Just because you may know some shady people, doesn't mean you'll inherit their shady lives. I miss the days when I was green. Filled with fairytale dreams. Why even build walls that shouldn't exist? Especially, when you didn't go through it.

Frenemies.. how many us have them?

2010-09-28T00:07:00.009-04:00

Know the difference ..let it process!

Friend -a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard

Associate -buddy, pal, acquaintance, partner, chum, comrade

Enemy -who feels hatred for, fosters harmful designs against, or engages in antagonistic activities against another

FRENEMY

-a fraudulent, asinine, companionship, of fuckery and mistrust

Now-a-days, fraud is the new cool. Individuality, is shunned. Loyalty, is mocked and patronized.

All for the mere sake of entertainment. People don't have shit else to do. At first, I called it life. People fall out of sorts, all the time. Things happen. I know. But when did we start fck'n with people, for the hell of it? We exchange, jabs for hugs. Is it the need to be validated by others, that we keep some people around? If you clown her on a daily.. why even chime in to say "Hello"? Why entertain a bitch you don't like? Are you bored?

The excuses aren't even remotely rational. "Well.. she's sweet but" .. "they're cool but " ...BUT WHAT? Other than, you can't stand them! Subtweets and secret jokes are all subliminal. For the most part at least. Some stuff, is just out right and flagrant and disrespectful. Until it's done to you, of course. An then again we say .."well aren't they friends?" Your social circumference can't possibly be that jaded. Cause if I don't like you ..WE ARE NOT TALKING! It's not even an issue. It's just that simple. Stop leaching onto popularity's tit . She's a deceitful whore!

I just don't get people, who talk about the ones they hang with. In turn, I always feel bad for that other person. Just find a ledge and be committed.

Devil In A New Dress

2010-09-04T09:56:00.001-04:00

KANYE WEST
Devil In A New Dress

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Ellis Official Mixtape

2010-09-01T20:37:00.002-04:00

Baltimore's own
Ellis
self titled Debut Mixtape
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Kanye West (COMICS) Tweets Fall

2010-09-01T15:04:00.006-04:00

Brought to you via New Yorker Magazine

As you all know, @Kanyewest is new to twitter..

These are his predicted tweets...

I Got WINNERS Mixtape

2010-09-01T14:47:00.004-04:00

Chill Mood & J.Cole
presents: I GOT WINNERS
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The BEAM UP 2

2010-08-31T14:18:00.002-04:00

(We've graduated from the "Powder" babies!!!!)
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KingpenSlim
The Beam Up 2

RAtheMC

2010-08-31T08:59:00.003-04:00

This could quite possibly, be DMV's first lady..

HEART of a CHAMPION
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Ambitious Girl -Wale

2010-07-28T18:04:00.003-04:00

Today @Wale leaked his latest single via twitter:

Ambitious Girl

"Ambitious girl see I like the person u are, but I'm in love with the person you have potential to be" - @wale

(Free Download)

Some Skeletons Should Be Kept!

2010-07-16T20:42:00.005-04:00

Now there's nothing wrong with knowing everything there is to know about your mate.

But is there such a thing as...
TOO MUCH?!?!

Favorite colors, snacks, songs, and family members are fine, but where do we draw the line? Is it better to meet someone AFTER they mentally mature or BEFORE?!?!! So many people say before, but so many people are idiots as well. So many people can't create nor partake, in an actual adult relationship to save their lives. An it's not like there's a bunch of examples running around, to coach us through. We know what Jump offs, Cuddy buddies, Flings, Baby Mamas and Rebounds are. But not Happy, HEALTHY, LOVING Relationships with Longevity are. Every one's an option, because every one's temporary.

I know men adore women who stand beside them through their trials and growth. But given how inconsiderate, manipulative and deceitful most men are in their youth...

would you have stood by
YOU?

Enduring, can empower as well as, destruct the very core in which you're built upon. The dating scene can get Messy. Engaging with multiple parties at a time is problematic. Especially, when sex is involved! Social networks are a ticking time bomb as well. Everyone says you must forgive and forget, but it's not realistic. Your heart may forgive, but your mind remembers. An you say.. "This is me! I'm the same me, that I was a year ago. I loved with all my heart then, as I do now. This is the same lips, eyes and soul that they saw then. So what makes them want to change for me now?" If desiring others, is a drug. Whose to say, they can stay clean. Everyone has withdrawals.

Sometimes it can lead a person to feel like "I love you but I wish I never saw that side of you ..I hurt just knowing that side exists". That side lingers around my thoughts, and I doubt it'll ever leave. Wherein starting fresh can leave you showcasing, your ideal you. Bidding farewell to all the roads less traveled. Everyone says it's ones choice. Of course, at any moment you could leave. But love doesn't quit. It's about accepting the past, an being grateful that they've lasted. Cuz everyone, ain't worth fighting for.

If you love someone... it should be in-spite of their faults! It's because you see something in them. Maybe much more than they see in themselves... Maybe it's passion! Maybe it's hope! Maybe it's just the tingly feeling, that you grab onto, refusing to let go. Whatever it is.. it's OK! Some of the best things, aren't easily handed to us, but it's worth the struggle.

Friendship & Love! Do you Compromise?

2010-07-11T09:23:00.003-04:00

Ok soooo ..its been awhile. I know... I know... Lls An now, I have so much to discuss. But, that's all in due time. So on this lovely Sunday morning, I'll be light and hit the FRIENDSHIP button.

"How many of us have them?

FRIENDS!!!!"

Some bonds formulated, just can't be broken. They should be cherished, because they're chosen. Your given a family. You select your friends! Regardless of loss or success, your friends ride the waves of your stress. They love and accept you, good and bad. But in order to attain such companionship, you must carry the qualities it entails. You can't be out here, shady as shit and expect companionship. Trust takes forever to earn, an instant to lose.

People get in relationships, and disconnect from the world. Love should never make you choose. If a person don't respect your friends, they don't respect you. An there will ALWAYS be a problem because of it. The person you love, should never have spiteful ways. You did exist before them ....right? So why dismantle, the very foundations you've made?

Well over 13yrs, me and my bestfriend has had a couple of sayings...

"Two Bitches, are better than One!"
&
"She was here Before, she is here Through and if need be, After YOU!"

Even when your wrong, a "GOOD" friend steers you right. Anyone can just be there, but a good friend is honest and holds no punches. A friend doesn't have to like your mate, but they'll respect them. They'll be happy for your happiness. Just don't compromise your character, for the things your going after. Because if one collapse... who will give a damn?

At the end of the day, friends and lovers combine through time. With family and kids, your haves are now his. There should be no eye balling during the holidays, or functions. An if there is, than somethings wrong. An you've lost your fight, before it could ever be won. Love is about compromise. That doesn't mean for your ass, to be out every night with your drunk friends. Or just waving with a glance at his/her friends as a form of acknowledgment.

I just see so many situations that will never get better, because compromise is just a word people use with no filler.

Kingpen Slim "GONE"

2010-06-30T18:41:00.001-04:00

I always saw promise in this dude. An he still continues to impress!

"BEAM UP"

Inside the Dj Booth w/ QUICKSILVA

2010-06-30T14:29:00.002-04:00

Got FEVER?!?!

Inside the DJ Booth | Quicksilva | Part 1 from elitedc on Vimeo.

--> @DJQUICKSILVA

I'm feeling this interview, as a friend and person w/ respect for the craft. He's doing his thing right now DMV ...Pay Attention! This is the first, of many more to come...

Racist Tim James!

2010-06-23T14:20:00.003-04:00

Tosh.0

Is It Racist? - Alabama Political Ad

www.comedycentral.com

Web Redemption

2 Girls, 1 Cup Reaction

Demi Moore Picture

The worst kind of American!
Be sure to let him see yours thoughts via Twitter!

@TimJames2010

Christina Aguilera -Impossible

2010-06-22T09:21:00.003-04:00

I use to love this song! Still do, but I felt like I was the only one. Not to many people had Christina Aguilera's album. Yet as you may know, Alicia Keys produced this song.

Rihanna {Te Amo} video

2010-06-17T19:58:00.000-04:00

CHEAP Black Women is a Sad Epidemic!

2010-06-11T09:53:00.006-04:00

I've done a survey among servers in the DMV. The one thing that is consistent is, the well earned stereotype of Black Women.

CHEAP, Needy and RUDE!!!

I don't care if it's offensive, because it's TRUE! I've seen it, over and over. Been somewhat, mortified at times. It's gross to see how some women act, and wonder why people stereotype them. I wouldn't want to serve your ignorant cheap ass either. It shows, how much you lack. It's sad! At a certain age, ones expected to conduct themselves in a certain manner that ceases to exists nowadays.

If you have NO money, why dine out? Why go to someones job, get smart with them, run them around and not pay them? A restaurant is NOT YOUR HOUSE! You can sit where you want. You can have and drink what you like, at your house. If you have to ask "How much is soda?" ..go to Popeye's. If you have to get separate checks w/ your friends, ALL the time. Invest in new ones. How do you not know what you ordered? Is the tax too expensive? All these acts are annoying and tacky! It's embarrassing! WHY? An it's Usually Black Women 17-35yrs of age.

A restaurant is NOT a comedy show. Why are you laughing SO loud? Borderline screaming. It's all about you huh? No one else can eat or talk, and actually enjoy their conversation. An by all means, I'm not advising people to eat in silence. But.. I've heard bytches SQUEAL! Literally groups of girls, scream in laughter. That made EVERYONE, in the restaurant, be like WTF? ...Really?!?!

An I don't know what it is about women and other women, but STOP! Why do you instantly have an attitude with women servers, more so than men? Is there a chromosome, that makes you nicer to dick? I know multiple servers at restaurants, that request men customers because of this. Every five seconds you NEED something else. YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY TABLE THAT SERVER HAS!!! An the more your indecisive, the more issues they'll be. You should Never leave less than $5 at any restaurant for ANY tip! If you've spent $100 dollars on food, why are you tipping $6. Have you never been out to eat, without a man paying your way or something? It's baffling!

Or the women who nit pick at EVERY single, little thing and ask for a manager. I cringe, when I see that happen. Obnoxious!

Fight Night: Nicki vs. Kim

2010-06-11T09:04:00.003-04:00

Dj Young Cee PRESENTS: FIGHT NIGHT <-Download

She don't Love you, She Love the Perception

2010-06-10T09:02:00.006-04:00

Nowadays, love is just a concept of emotions manufactured by Hallmark! People don't know what the hell they're doing. An sadly enough, women settle. I have seen soo many unhappy women "make it work" just to get by. The men they want, are probably promiscuous, stubborn, emotionless bachelors. So they give up, and move on. Settle down with man, who provides the yellow brick road.

But at what cost. You've latched onto the rebound. They've made you their world. Your the best thing they've ever had, yet your still sad. You didn't want them. You wanted more, but the money throws a fog in your face. You can't see through the haze, until it's too late. An that's why so many women, are cheating with no discretion. He buys you anything you want, an makes sure your his world. Yet in your head, your that other mans girl.

You should never use someones heart, as a comfort zone. Being scared of love, is the fastest way to hurt everyone else while "Protecting" yourself. You end up treating everyone, the way you couldn't fathom being treated. An the older you get, the messier it becomes. Needing a compassionate companion, and or "Friend" is one thing. But enlisting in a half hearted relationship is another. Just because he's SAFE! So you mentally, if not physically cheat, with the one who gives you chills.

The only women who disgust me more, are the ones who solely do it for money. They have a good man who goes above and beyond, but ehhh... it's not enough. They always want that other dude, who oozes that perception of Money, Status and ohhh MONEY! It'll be the quietest, well dressed, proper woman, sending messages for him to come through. Hoping there's a connection, that would give her room to leave her situation. I don't respect those women. Your just a well dressed trick.

What Caliber of Man are You?

2010-06-09T19:30:00.013-04:00

Are you a Gentlemen or a Jerk?!

Everyday, I see and meet men of a different kind. An I silently grade them. We ALL do it! Your manners, etiquette and language all play a part. Your age puts you in a certain bracket. How each individual excels, solely depends on self growth.

For instance, how one may engage while dinning out. Openly discussing money is tacky. You either have it or you don't. There should be no surprises once the meals have been eaten. Over the table exchange of money is crass. Loud, abrasive, arrogant demeanor's are a sign of insecurity and immaturity. Why are you rude to the waiter? <-Unnecessary! Borderline unacceptable. A man with poor dinning etiquette, shows me he's not accustomed to fine dinning. What I consider fast food.. he considers top notch.

A man's stride, speaks volumes. If he makes sure he's always between you an the road, (while walking) he's a gentleman. Little acts of chivalry, his mother has embed. Along with holding the door an so forth. Never, rudely off setting one another. A man should never walk AHEAD of a women. We're Together! Where are you going? Gentlemen, walk beside their counterparts! There's no pets or children to drag along here. We're adults!

Tones mean everything. Don't base your voice at me. Did my father join this discussion in place of you? In what instance, do you feel barking at a woman will get you respected. You can get your message across in any calm tone. Especially while we're out. Only children throw tantrums. You KNOW better! If you feel the need to belittle, manipulate, degrade any woman to be heard... you need to be ALONE! Go seek guidance within yourself, before you seek anything in another.

But it's also fair to say that, men act accordingly in some cases. How can a man treat you like a woman, when you don't know what is required of a man. You allow men to treat you like anything. Displacing your self worth, instills a standard. Spoken or not.

There are another set of standards that apply in relationships... but I'll leave that for tomorrow!

2010 Summer Louboutins

2010-06-09T09:59:00.004-04:00

The peep toe Maloko pumps

Stringhita platform slingbacks

The Popi Plato oxford lace-up platforms

Of course there's more, but these are my favorites...

2010-05-12T22:44:00.003-04:00

..::Get Right for 2010::..

DJ Alizay Workout Mix

Why Don't You Love Me -Video

2010-05-04T17:09:00.003-04:00

Beyonce -Why Don't You Love Me {Sneak Peek}

2010-05-03T07:28:00.001-04:00

Pin Up Sheek!

Born Free

2010-04-26T12:49:00.002-04:00

.::WARNING::. Materials slightly graphic

M.I.A, Born Free from ROMAIN-GAVRAS on Vimeo.

A Thin Line Between Ungrateful

2010-04-25T16:33:00.008-04:00

Is your mate ungrateful,
OR
Are you just not what you use to be?

Nowadays, more so to say the least that seems to be the problem. The issues vary. Though they walk a fine line. But how can you tell? Most often, the ones in the relationship fail to tell one another. How is your situation going to get better, if you lack communication. Copping an attitude doesn't tell someone they're unappreciative. It just tells them your moody and temperamental.

Most women don't have an issue with demanding how they should be treated. Men on the other hand... its hard to call. A man will tell you his limits, and let you find your way. They don't whine! If they're unhappy, they'll act out. Sometimes the biggest resolution is compromise. Yes, you want this, but he can't provide it at the moment. My initial thought is, get yourself. But if your that spoiled, it's not even an option. How about you build him up an do something for him. Instead of making him feel any lesser of a man. If they love you and try their best to keep you happy, you should be happy.

Material possessions, should never way soo heavy on your joy. Both parties need to learn to be consistent. Still chase her and make her feel desired. Ladies, don't get beside yourself. If you was this bitchie and self absorbed when he met you, you'd probably be single now. So many women complain about what men don't do. But could you be him for a month. Work hard, buy him $800 sneakers, go out weekly an front the tab Every time and pay all the bills. Then with what little money left, you can then take care of you. Think about it. But, they do it because they love you and choose to.

Lastly, I was told that love is a constant evolving growing force. It's continuously shifting and expanding with time. So bottom line..... Never get comfortable.

V V Brown

2010-04-21T17:26:00.008-04:00

English recording artist

V V Brown

is my new melodic love....

Latest single: Shark In The Water

What's in your Trick Bag!

2010-04-16T14:00:00.009-04:00

What's too much too fast?
Do you know when to show your sexual wild cards?

A lot of women are revved up to please the new boo, and show him all what she can do. Food and sex are often the things they try to master. Cook the best meals while supplying the best sex. The quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. While the best way to keep him attached to your heart is, through his little head. Blame the media, blame the standards, and blame whomever. But there is a "TURN-OFF" button. I myself thought that giving your all sexually, was a good thing. Yet it's been brought to my attention that most women do it in a sloppy manner. There is a sexual tempo that most dudes abide by.

If your just an after hours smut, than by all means carry on. This doesn't apply to you! But after conversing with a handful of gentlemen last night. It's been brought to my attention that women aren't selective as they should be. In regards to, their trick bag. Men love and seek to enjoy sex to the fullest... BUT!!!! Take your time, before you scare them away. Sometimes they may want to feel as if it maybe y'all "FIRST" time trying such position. If you go on a first date and cap if off by swallowing the park...! Trust and believe your gonna get a blank stare. You don't know him. Lets be honest. So the question arises, "Does she do this with everyone?" If so, then she's just about to be at the top of my sex call list. I'm not taking her and her day-care of a mouth serious.

The same thing applies for back door access. If your just shoving it in without the "TALK" like it's standard?!?! You may get your feelings hurt. That's not the ABC's of sex. More like the X,Y area. Be selective and learn your tempo.

NEW MUSIC

2010-04-16T13:05:00.003-04:00

Possibly the DMV's Summer's Anthem?!?!
New Single by Quick called "Hands Up" ::DOWNLOAD::

To BE or Not to BE the Bigger Person?

2010-04-14T09:41:00.003-04:00

I don't know why this just came to my mind, but I found myself laughing in bed. Everyone says you have to be the bigger person, but why? Let's be honest. Some actions aren't warranted forgiveness. It's not that I hate you. I just don't care about you enough to appease your state of mind. There's a reason, to why I love the comedic genius Larry David. He's a realist! Some people are moronic assholes, who get-over daily. They aren't genuine, sincere or even goodhearted. Yet, they seek appraisal, love and compassion. The very things they lack.

I'm a God fearing person, an we all know about forgiveness... BUT! Don't get your feelings hurt. Some people's hearts need to be handled with mittens, while others need to be dropped. If you've wrong someone, and genuinely regret it just apologize. You know what you did. You know why they're mad. Cut the confusion. Some people don't give a damn about you or your feelings when they're consumed in themselves. ME, MY, I! You were irrelevant at that point in time. Then as their actions backfire an go south, they seek refuge and redemption. An it's not politically correct to hold a grudge, but you want to say F-U!

Like men who don't like each other and proceed to shake hands and back-stab one another. Is it the male need for popularity, or the need of being accepted? I rather be a Bitch and a Woman then! For the mere fact.. if I don't care for YOU... we are not speaking! I don't care if your next to me. I can't stand fraudulent facades. We have one life. An realizing the absence of others in "YOURS" ..will make it better! It will leave you happier and less stressed. Ones happiness, should never be compromised. Because sadly enough, most people wouldn't feel sorry if their intent wasn't exposed. Some people can have a bad moment, when they get out of character. But recalling bad judgment over and over? Reflects you just have "BAD" character. It is what it is.

You should forgive some people, but not everyone. You don't need to be buddies. It's not wishing any illness or ill intent, but being true to you. That person is not important enough to stress over or acknowledge. People always equate ignoring with being upset. When in all actuality, you just don't care. They're just that insignificant to you, and it's ok. We're adults! So accountable, is what you'll be held.

Wale Pretty Girls Remix

2010-04-13T19:32:00.001-04:00

Pretty Girls Remix ft. Chris Brown & Fabulous ::DOWNLOAD::

Kat Stacks "SPOOF"

2010-04-05T11:10:00.000-04:00

Tight Rope

2010-03-31T18:50:00.000-04:00

Ova Der Hedz

2010-03-31T16:31:00.001-04:00

Obama the Rapist

2010-03-31T09:55:00.007-04:00

RACIST MUCH? or is it just an illusion...?

The original POST of course, went into further details. Along with the controversial comments that followed suit.

Click post to be redirected to original article!

Capital City Cipher

2010-03-30T18:32:00.002-04:00

Shout outs to Mo Betta posting up in the opening an Billy Bang shutting it down!

Don't rely on your Man as your source of FUN!

2010-03-24T10:47:00.010-04:00

Along with dating, there's the everyday problems. Some are battles that are chosen. Others are battles that determine your mindset. The best partners, are the ones that are best friends. Great communication, appreciation and consideration for another. But...

Who's the epic center of your FUN?

It happens to the best of us, especially women time after time. You have a life and set of friends out of that man. Yet it's as if they didn't exists, while with him. Women start blowing off girl time for "BOO-Time" daily. That isolation, forces them to combine their friends an their man into one. All the things she did with her girlfriends, are now shoved into "Boo-Time". Don't DEMAND his time, to do everything YOU want to do! It's not fair ladies.

An for the Bossy Men... It's a controlling mans, wet dream! They'll nurture that 100%. "Baby, that girlfriend of yours goes out too much... Why do you wanna go there? No... I got something better.... etc." To the point everything you do needs to be approved.

But once you've entered a relationship so co-dependent, it's hard to rebuild. Everything "New" must be done by the two of you. Women who give up their friends, make their men the top source of their fun. An that's no fun! He wouldn't like it if she took someone else.Yet he fights every suggestion of the things she's trying to do. Break and compromise. Everything never starts out that way. Something triggered it in motion. Both parties are to blame.

Women will tend to feel left out and lonely. When their man has consumed himself with overlapping priorities. When someone makes you their best friend, it usually requires your best foot. Yet people somehow, end up making their partners feel like their hobby. I'll squeeze "US" in, when I can. A woman's mindset is to preserve. I value him, so let me focus on him. Why go to the club all the time an have men in my face for three hrs? When I can be with him, watch a movie an have sex in those three hrs.

Space In Time

2010-03-22T17:06:00.003-04:00

A peaceful state of mind
Transitions
The things I fairly know
Chapters at this moment
Will be written as they go

Plots..
Streaming..
By the seams
Co-stars aligning
I"ll decipher what it means

TRUST!

It is not that I don't care
but I know God has a purpose
to why he placed you here.

Nothings ever perfect,
at least the things worth it...
aren't fairly soo.

It is hard to doubt
What you heart truly knows
Fear is deception
Masked with confidence
When it grows...

I leave this space in time
For our souls to merely grow..
When the day comes in time to speak on it
I'll say..
"Babe I Told You So"

I Had A Dream About You

2010-03-22T01:53:00.004-04:00

I had a dream about you that consumed my whole night
Contorted my views
Of what I found to be right

You were happy
Even, elated
By the mere glimpse of me

In your arms
I sought comfort
How could this be

Lost in my eyes
As you gazed in my face
Hard to rewind
Dreams are never erased

Pulled me in close
Gripped
Layed me down

There was this intensity
THICK
Without even a sound

I felt kisses
Over..
And over my face
Like melted petals
With a gum drop taste

It was soo overwhelming
I got lost in the flow
But what makes me nervous
Is the rest that I know

The rest that I know
The rest that I feel
No need to reenact
Some dreams aren't meant to be real

Tiwtter/BBM Etiquette 101

2010-03-15T21:43:00.005-04:00

Everyone seems to know the Rules of "Facebook" but what about Twitter and BBM? People get lost in themselves and do the most annoying things. So let's address them!

#1. STOP CHANGING YOUR NAME.. to random dumb people and things! I should never stare at my phone, like who the hell is this. Over and Over Again... WTF!

#2. STOP MASS TEXT/BROADCASTING GOD... isn't that in vain or something? It has to be for that random nonsense you stamp him with. People just throw his name around for ANYTHING these days. STOP!!!

#3. EMO CRAZED AND IN DENIAL? Men try to come off calm and collect but are a total Mess! Just OWN IT and get it over with. Crying about women and fake friends... its ok to be human. *Extending a HUG*

#4. Your MAIN PIC NEEDS TO BE YOU! can you say *Swindle Alert* Don't be mad when people are disappointed by you. Cause lets be honest, your disappointed with yourself. Can we see your freaking FACE?!?! ...really...Really ...REALLY!

#5. YOU ARE WHAT YOU TWEET! Don't be mad at about what people know about you when you WROTE it. If your a dude that don't want to be perceived as hoe, stop talking about your conquest.

#6. NO FORCE FOLLOWS! People will follow who they want. STOP harassing me to follow you. It's JUST Twitter! Friendships in REAL LIFE are what matters... right?!?! Smh Don't get beside yourself on the Internet.

#7. BANDWAGON DREAMS AREN'T WHAT THEY SEEM! Just because "it" or "they" seem cool doesn't mean it or they are. Do you live to fit in and be down w/ trends? Have your own views! They aren't frowned upon.

#8. WHEN YOU TRY HARD.. YOU DIE HARD! We see you Captain EXTRA! Chill the hell out... your presence is Annoying!

#9. KNOW WHEN TO END YOUR BBM CONVO! Everything doesn't Need a response! Get over it... If you saw that they read it, trust that they KNOW!!!!! Geeeeeeeze!

#10. BE RESPECTFUL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON THE NET! That's if you hope to maintain it in REAL Life! Is flirting and sending secret messages to randoms on the net, worth losing or hurting the love in your life?

#11. EVERYONE HAS A BAD DAY! But if everyday is the worst day of your life... Get the fck OFF the net and go see a psychiatrist! No one wants to see that sh#t, EVERY DAMN DAY!

#12. IF YOU CAN'T SAY IT IN PERSON, DON'T SAY IT ONLINE! Some dudes have soo much courage and swag on the net, but are mouses in Life. Ladies act gangsta, but take it back ON Site. Cease with the facades please, before you get that ass in deep!

#13. @ PEOPLE DIRECTLY!!!!! Why the fck do I see your whole conversation through the last four tweets??? Do you not know how to use twitter, w/o pissing me off w/ your b.s?

Best Actor in "Real Life"

2010-03-15T16:38:00.000-04:00

Jimmy Kimmel's "Handsome Men's Club"

2010-03-15T16:31:00.004-04:00

Touch Me

2010-03-08T11:11:00.000-05:00

Float On

2010-03-05T13:45:00.002-05:00

You can get her, but can you keep her?

2010-03-05T10:42:00.004-05:00

OK luvs! After my Miami trip, I've been loafing. But I'll get back on the saddle, to avoid any further sass. There's a lot of topics that will be discussed, but today I have one question.

You can get her, but can you keep her?

I'm not sure if people fully grasp the concept, of a real relationship. Grasping, dissecting and letting it settle is the hard part. Once it's processed... quite possibly the best thing since sliced bread. But lets be real. No one's going to heaven, if they're still tricking in hell. Your smile, may of gotten her attention but you deceitful reputation was well earned. An now it is on to the next. At what age do you desire more for yourself, when pursuing others? When do you yearn for substance or the willingness to put someone before you? Some people mean well, but are poor at executing their intentions. Like anything else it takes work. No one is perfect.

A lot of men get in a situation and think its a job. A person is not a job, chore and or hobby. There are no breaks, time outs or hiatus. Someone endures all that, that is you. Your pains, faults, highs and lows. Some men, can hear a women talk for hours and not listen. You can be in a relationship, and feel completely alone. Some men are so nonchalant, that its collapses the very thing they built. Wake up! It's your situation. When a women suggests something for you to do... the term "I don't want to" is another nail on your coffin. All those games, places an things shes done for the sake of you. Just to see you smile and feel as if your companion was willing to go the mile with YOU.. is shot! It's not about you. An can you do it without complaining?

Say she wants to go to the theater, and non of her friends share her passion for the arts. A lot of men would say "Hell No, take someone else". Why should she? Your partner is your friend above anything. Some dudes push you into another man, because he's lazy. And is too arrogant to catch wind, of whats happening. If she comes to you, why push her away. When those lines of communication end, so does your relationship. If you never want to do what she wants. Leaving her to always compromise on the behalf of you. She'll eventually resent you. Women get tired of talking when they feel unheard. Yes you love me but you don't listen. I must not matter that much. Actions are sincerely louder. You can say I love you till your blue. But if your constantly messing up, it don't matter. Your love isn't valid.

If she always has to call someone else, when she wants to do something or go somewhere she wants.... Or seek refuge in others for a smile. What is your purpose? There are a million of dudes, offering sex without the headache. A lot of women do a lot of things without complaining, just to see him smile. That right there, can make her day. Men don't get an award for saying "I Love You" or finally "Committing". Step outside yourself an step your love up.

Bad Sex!

2010-03-04T19:46:00.002-05:00

For the longest, I've been waiting for lyrical to post some footage. Now that he has, here's a few reasons why I love him. I present... Lyrical the Lyricist and Archie the Messenger.

Dare Dorm! FAMU? Smh

2010-03-03T22:58:00.008-05:00

Let the Smutting BEGIN!

Apparently this sites paying college students $10,000 for video taping sexual antics. But a further look into this, an my source found a glitch. The majority of these videos, are from Pornstars out Miami. Posing as students!!! A slick way of getting this movement started. Yet unknowingly egging real students, to weigh in on the cash. I don't care what care free school you went to. This ain't typical dorm behavior.

For FAMU's so called video ::CLICK::

The Official Dare Dorm Site

Jay-Z Documentary NY-Z

2010-03-03T22:40:00.003-05:00

SNL "We Are The World Parody"

2010-02-28T20:56:00.001-05:00

Blogs on By-week

2010-02-21T07:36:00.003-05:00

Soo if you haven't noticed, I've mentally tapped out an been on vacation. My actually vay-cay starts TODAY!!!! Soo don't expect nothing till next Thursday!

Skinny? Angry? Why soo Obsessed?

2010-02-11T11:04:00.004-05:00

There's a lot of women who are dying to be slim. Slim women dying to be bones. An unless a man is gay, why would he be attracted to a 12yr old BOY?!?! Where this obsession come from. I find it difficult to blame t.v unless, your watching something different from me. Television is at the forefront of "Thick is Sexy". Even with cartoons! All the beautiful women, have "Curves". Betty Boop was the icon, of the cartoon temptress. Marilyn Monroe is thee' Epitome, of the feminine mystique. Von Deta Tease, Britney "Corn-fed" Spears, Beyonce etc... Are all the ideals of sexy. So why do some women want to be skins and bones.

I'm a slim women myself, with NO desire to diet or lose any type of weight. I love my body, and I'm comfortable with ME! Now if eating that rocky road can add five more pounds to my tush, I'd be perfect. An not no-one, could tell me nothing! *smirk* I thought it was just obvious to pretty much assume...

*Pretty Face
*Nice Breast
*Flat Stomach
*Phat Butt
*Nice Legs
Equals Goddess!
No matter it being 125lbs - 175lbs as long as your well proportioned!

Nothing disgusts me more, then catty insecure women checking for the next one. Go get you some business, that's not my own. Everyone is NOT the same, so stop trying to be. I love, Love, LOVE it when I see a bigger women, CONFIDENT in their skin. Men are attracted to a woman's state of mind! If your wack, it won't matter how you look soaking wet. If your pretty then, YOUR PRETTY! If you love yourself, someone will compete with you, to love YOU! Cause no-one should love you more than yourself. Please don't blame it on the weight. You constantly doubting yourself, is what makes him doubt you. A "GUT & Being Sloppy" is unattractive period. An overweight people, aren't the only ones with them. Have you ever seen a skinny girl with "Back fat"??? Everyone has flaws!

I'm not insecure about mines. I love seeing confident, out going women, with a positive state of mind. When women are constantly nagging about other women. It's because, they're unhappy with themselves! If you could relate, you wouldn't hate! When what I do effects your mood... an I don't even know you??? Check yourself! An go seek help!

High Insecurity Rate! ...KNOW Your Mate!

2010-02-10T11:55:00.006-05:00

I love him... Love him Not! I Trust her... Trust her NOT!

How the hell did I get in this spot?

Is the question, most often asked.

I signed up for love, but not all this mess. Where are you going? How do you know him? Who is she? What did she mean by that? That's not what I heard. Well you know what? Fck It! If you already KNOW before you ask, I might as well patronize your ass. When you keep accusing someone of something they never do, they'll probably leave you. But, if they trusted you all the while you made them the fool. By all means don't complain, you tool! You get what you put out. Communication and honesty, can never steer you wrong.

If you had a good mate, who supported, understood, and went the mile for you. Then turned around a got someone or yourself pregnant, by some clubber. I don't want to hear shit from you. Things don't just happen. EVER! You allowed it or made it happen. So if there's inappropriate text messages and pictures in your phone, its your fault! You put your self in that situation, over their house. You made those decisions, for whatever reason. So own up, to how you'll be perceived. Trust is delicate, an quite hard to obtain. And a shady, deceitful, manipulative character, is even harder to clean straight.

But at the end of the day, you should know your mate. It's not like you just up an started dating, him/her. I could care less about your assumptions, if I didn't ask. Unless you got facts and or evidence. An if it's not that serious, why are you in my business? You should spend enough time with your mate, to understand their daily ins and out. Everyone is different. Why are you letting outside people, influence your situation? If it's something your upset with, then that's understandable. If it's an issue, your friend can't quite digest? Who cares? Who's in the relationship? It is displacing your mental peace. The very thing, no one needs. If he makes you happy, than be HAPPY! All the time spent on "Who's this an what ifs" is nerve wrecking. If you can't trust them, leave them. An if you know them, love them and let them be. Too many cooks in any relationship, can spoil the broth.

David Guetta feat. Akon - Sexy Chick

2010-02-08T22:48:00.001-05:00

I just can't get this song out my head!!!

How Good Is Your Sex.... Judgment?

2010-02-08T09:29:00.006-05:00

Most people often say that, men think with their little head. Well with women I guess it's fair to say, there hearts live in their lap.

No matter how tough you seem...
Sex complicates things!

The same guys that make it seem like "It is what it is" are the same guys playing house, entertaining the kids. "You ain't got to lie Craig" Let's not forget the women who say "It's just sex". Yet somehow along the way, forget to let it process. End up coming back to the guy like "See what had happened was.. I woke up one morning in love, so how you gonna act?" He's about to act a damn fool and RUN, because you blew his morning. That's exactly, how he's about to act. You and your emotions, are so rude and intrusive. Where do you get off falling, for the "Cuddy Buddy"?

But that's just the tip of the horny iceberg. Sex, can make you stay, when you know you should LEAVE! She gets on your damn nerves, but that ass is soo phat. Her lips are soo soft, and you can't picture her saying someone elses name. You can't trust him, stand him, and question if you love him. But when he hits the back of your walls... All that he's done, have been somehow erased. You forgive and forget, till the next time you have sex. It is unhealthy. An you don't give a damn about what anybody says. You may complain, Complain and COMPLAIN. But you will stay in that situation your in, until your ready. Period!

You can be sexed into submission. It can make you weak, and endure the very things you refused. A persons sexual trance, can influence. It can fck your mind up, among other things. No desire should ever consume you, and cloud your judgment. If you fall for someone you didn't expect, than fine. Be honest and address that. If it's not mutual. Leave and let be. Don't harbor no feelings, because you threw the wrench in it. Don't stay in a situation, if sex is thee' only reason. His little d@ck and smile, can't save him every time. Is he/she worth the stress? ---> On to the NEXT!

Homewrecker or Jump-off and Proud?

2010-02-03T08:35:00.010-05:00

Last night I tuned in to my friend Kevin's U-stream, for

Luciano's Way
{Each & Every Tuesday at 10pm}

The Topic was "Home-wrecker's" which was insightful, to say the least. His co-host Travonne, had some very valid points. No outsider can wreck YOUR home. Someone is only allotted, the things you let them. Wherein I say, "No one respects a situation, more than the parties in it". If you come off as solely focused and committed to your partner. Then that's how, you an your relationship would be perceived. Situations are only laughed at by those who make it a joke. Bragging that you love her don't mean shyt, if your talking to every pretty face on "The Low". Because then, you'll be mad when your low becomes quite obvious and someone tells.

Now "What was even more hilarious, were the women who showed no discretion for their whore-ish ways. Proud to be the side jump off. Wheretheydothatat?" apparently here. "Its not my fault he stepped out." Your absolutely right, if you didn't know his situation. If you did on the other hand, your just a jump off hoe. He is no better! Yet, that's how he looks at you, because that's how you present yourself. He bust's it wide open, because that's your purpose. Then he'll eventually discard you, an let some idiot save you.

I just don't like men/women who cry foul, an do the same trifling stuff. You need my sympathy when your man cheats and ups an leave you. Yet, instead of focusing on yourself, and getting your things together. Your out there throwing your pussy around like a hand shake. Go sit your ass down! An it's the same with men. Stop complaining about your girl not trusting you. Especially, when you don't deserve to be trusted. Your dumbass, need to go get your life right. Just one complete and utter Mess! Why are you mad at someone telling your girl all the shady shyt you do? WHO put you in that situation?... YOU!

It's fair to say, Do onto others as you would like others to do onto you! We ALL learn that in kindergarten, and nothings changed. Grow up!

We Are The World 2010

2010-02-02T21:04:00.004-05:00

Hip hip Hooray.... I found Kanye!

Singing for Haiti!

Looks as though, the who's who of musicians joined forces. On the 25yr. anniversary of the original song, generations of stars united for the Haitian relief.

Why date Peter Pan when I can have a Man?

2010-02-01T12:08:00.007-05:00

It seems like, women in the DMV are over and done with it. They'll invest in a man, but if your stuck in lala land... NEXT! What's shocking is the fact, these men are pissed. Highly distraught and upset. It's kinda of sad and cute. Somewhat laughable, actually. You had the nerve, to waste a perfectly good woman's time. For however many years, playing around. Painfully making it clear that, it was about you and your needs.

No responsibility, path or set focus in regards to your woman. The mere thought, tensing and frightening your every being. Instead, you'd rather partake in Every DMV event. As if, you were paid to attend. Being joined at the hip with your friends. Somehow, forming the "Babysitters club" amongst men. Which ironically enough, is like channeling the lost boys of Peter Pan. Running around recklessly, battling restraint. You pushed her away! Who doesn't know how to hold on to the person they love??? If she acted that way, would you stay? Would she be Out of control? Ungrateful? Thee' worst? Would you then man whore for ten years, explaining how she ruined it for others?

I just don't understand how one can ultimately ruin their situation, and feel like their owed anything. If you made it perfectly clear you weren't ready for marriage, cheated and gagged at the thought of kids. What is it your concern, as to whom and when she marry? You don't want a women to force or change you. So why be pissed, when she trades for someone new. You didn't want to be that dude. An regardless of how you "REALLY" felt, that's what you presented an made evident. Oops! My apologies. You wanted her to wait six more years, until you felt like it. No! that's not how it works.
When you live for self, you end up with and by yourself. Understand you are selfish. An yes, they're are men who will tell you and understand what and who they are. For those in denial... go play somewhere. An be less destructive, with someone else. I can respect a man, who is just happy that another supplies all that they couldn't. It shows growth, understanding, and maturity. When the person you loved, just wants you to be happy. In spite of themselves. That "If I Can't Have You, No One Can" mentality is elementary.

Who'd Have Known -Lily Allen

2010-01-30T09:13:00.001-05:00

Lily Allen 22 Official Video

2010-01-30T09:09:00.000-05:00

Lily Allen - 22 (Official Music Video)
by Lily-Allen-Tv

When it comes to Sex you strive for Second Best

2010-01-28T23:36:00.011-05:00

It seems like Boyfriend #2 was a hot topic. Primarily being, that so many can relate. Whether you were/are that boy or girl on the side, or the gluttonous partner. I understand, most people do what they can. How can you cheat, if you have no prospects? But who willingly signs up to play second string? I just think of Mad TVs "Lowered Expectations" jingle, every time. You signed up to be a loser.

If you just want sex... Get what you want, an proceed to move on. What is this "EMOTION" nonsense? Feelings!!! Why? What is the purpose? What is your purpose? I use the term loser, because there is no prize for second. No one cares, but YOU!

"If Your Not First Your Last" -Ricky Bobby's Dad

Their heart already belongs to another. Your more or less the scavenger, patrolling for leftovers. Hoping for a fresh cadaver. My heart goes out to the ones that refuse to let that register. Nooo, you can't meet the homies. Nooo, you can't meet the folks. Nooo, there will be no photos of "US" cuz "US" doesn't exist. It just is what it is. You maybe cool, but I'm still undergoing me, before I can process you.

An what happens quite often, sadly, is that #2 is dismissed either way of it. The obvious being, their choice has reconciled with his/her's partner. Or after all is said and done, realizing that #2 was just enough for the moment. A lot of people you normally wouldn't entertain, seems charming when your not happy. Anything, starts looking better then your situation. Then once you've gone an regrouped. You realize, #2 wasn't more then a mere security blanket. An just as a child, you out grow them.

95 LIive by Ellis (New Music Video) Shot in B-More

2010-01-28T20:45:00.004-05:00

Boyfriend #2 Always gets Screwed

2010-01-27T10:19:00.007-05:00

My friend Raphael is overseas with a gripe. He asked me to discuss a topic, he couldn't understand. So for this, I need clearance ladies.

If your man has you crying a lot, forcing you to seek refuge in another. Why not leave him? Why do women stay with the man that hurts them, instead of upgrading. When you have suitors at your disposals, who are willing to go above an beyond... why dismiss them?

Do good women settle for misery instead of
embracing good company?

Women will nag, cry and complain about a man daily. All the while, loving him up. Love is a god given drug. The worst of its lows, is still higher then being alone to some. An even if you have an option to pursue greener pastures, most are content. Stagnant, in a self inflicting sentence, with no hopes of parole. Maybe it's the fact, some women see more potential in their partner than is logical at times. They think it's a phase, and prays that he mature. Hoping that's there's MORE, to what they signed up for.

Boyfriend #2 is just what we call a ringer. They're merely for entertainment, and self indulging purposes. Like a five hour energy boost. They give you life an joy for an instant, before you crash on your reality's of life. You don't want a change. You just want "HIM" to change, an provide that boost you seek elsewhere. Men do it to, and often. You know damn well he's not leaving his wife. It really wasn't an option. You was just entertaining the notion an possibilities, of what could be. A lot of women don't what a new model. Just an upgrade of their product.

If being MEAN turns you On. {{POOF}} Be Gone!

2010-01-25T20:51:00.008-05:00

Why the Hell do men think being Ignorant an Crude is Cute???

Does it all trace back to trade school? The boys who tripped me up an pulled my hair. To then only, turn around and give me ice cream money. I just don't get it. Back then it was fair to say, boys will be boys. What's a Man's excuse? I know that everyone has their day, and some women are Bitches! Understandingly so. But why do men carry on about as females at times? I can take a joke an walk it off, like the best of them. But there's a fine line between Joke & JERK! One makes me laugh, while the other...? No applause. I was never turned on by disrespect. Being mean is NOT a form of intrigue.

I know some women are too sensitive but screw that, it's getting ridiculous. I developed thick skin through yrs, understanding it's ok to laugh at ones self. My brothers aided me with that. Hearing "MAN UP" time after time, will eventually do that to you. An I can admit. When I don't like someone, it's EASY to be "Thee' Bitch". I'm talking total definition here. Although, if I considered you a friend and or at least; cared for you in some way, it's something I cannot do. Simply, one of things that's not in my character. For the mere fact, once I extend myself to someone, they hold a part of me to some extent.

Yet I marvel, by how some men can be so petty and calculated. An over the slightest, trivial things at lengths upon lengths at a time. Men talk about bitter women. But how can you handle a "Bitter" man? Is it fair to say, call it a loss a run the other way? No! I hope that I'm capable of evolving in any relationship. Just because I don't date you, doesn't mean you should make me hate you. Partners come and go but friendship withstand time. An if you know within yourself that my joy with another is unbearable to you. Then extract yourself. Don't become snide, curt and abrasive at all times therein after. No one should ever be constantly walking on egg shells, dissecting each comment. I wish well to all those I come in contact with in-spite of, if our roads do split. I end this to say no friendship should ever burden, offend, or be consumed by ill intent. I don't ever want to regret a friendship. Keep in mind, it is you that show me who YOU are so don't be mad by what I see.

Mudslides in California... WTF?

2010-01-20T10:41:00.003-05:00

A lot of people are holding the Apocalypse accountable, for all this turmoil. This morning I woke up to see a man kayaking down the streets of south side California. THE STREET! Are these the effects of global warming or what. My second oldest brother stays in L.A, an I just spoke to him two days ago. Now no contact is an understatement.

Google MLK Remembrance Logo

2010-01-18T11:34:00.006-05:00

Every holiday, season change, the makers if Google delights in the spirit. Assembling new Google logo's to commemorate the day. Being that today's currently Martin Luther King J.r Day, they couldn't of made one more fitting. You can't obtain the future you seek, without taking the steps of progress.

Jimmy RIPS Jay Leno to his Face!

2010-01-17T20:12:00.001-05:00

HILARIOUS

A Call From Haiti

2010-01-15T11:11:00.008-05:00

As you know, the last three days been some what worrisome. As some of y'all may know I'm Haitian, and the bulk of my family still remains in Haiti. My mother's side is from Jeremie, while my father's half hail from Cap-Haitien. Being that my grandma (on my mother's side alone) birthed 12 children, you can only imagine the size of my family. Not being able to watch the news, in fear of crying, was trying situation. Being unable to reach anyone was ultimately scary, to say the least. Yet a change came this morning. My mom received a call from my uncle Mario, stating there where abouts and current health. How everyone is Port-Au-Prince, is being advised not to enter their homes. Due to safety conditions, and forced to live in tents along side.

The reason this is soo tragic, is because they weren't prepared. There are no Earthquakes in the Caribbean. Haiti's last Earthquake was 200 yrs ago. Our houses are made of concrete, not bricks, plaster or wood. They're built, Hurricane ready. Rain, flood and strong winds are our thing. So when a three story hospital, made of concrete collapse... understand the magnitude. That isn't something firefighters can just run up in, or someone you can bulldoze. Then add that to the structure on every home. If you have a concrete house that cracks in half, how do you repair that? This isn't ABC's Extreme Makeover! So I'll continue to keep them in my prayers.

For some upcoming info on where you can contribute and donate
Click: DMV Events
DMV Haiti Relief Concert at the 930 Club: Tickets

Honest Keith Olbermann

2010-01-13T23:01:00.007-05:00

Soo... let me get this straight. Americans can steal a country and commit genocide against its natives, yet condemn another country for refusing slavery? I've never been so disgusted by a persons life and being as a whole. To know that those two men are the voice of others in this day in age, is imaginable. The epitome of ignorance and hate. The very reason why, so many countries loathe the United States. Pompous, racist, hypocritical White Americans!

Disaster in Haiti

2010-01-13T01:17:00.004-05:00

One of the largest earthquake's to hit Haiti in more than 200 years. Tore through my Caribbean land Tuesday, collapsing a hospital and heavily damaging other buildings. U.S. officials reported bodies lying in the streets.

The earthquake had a preliminary magnitude of 7.0 and was centered about 10 miles west of Port-au-Prince at a depth of 5 miles.

With phones down, I couldn't get in contact with my family today like most people. My prayers are out to anyone enduring the unsureness of family loss like me. Wycelf Jean is at the forefront, aiding to get the word out as best as he can. His Help Haiti Campaign is Earthquake Relief Donate $5 by texting YELE to 501 501

Black Girl Chile Please

2010-01-12T10:29:00.024-05:00

Angry Black Woman

Black girl, why you soo LOUD?!?!

There's a lot of black women who don't know their boundaries. It is alright to be educated, strong willed, and successful by all means. But don't get it twisted, PLEASE check yourself! Some black women, are so aggressive in everything they do. That their whole demeanor, comes off hostile. An this isn't something new. That very issue, is why a lot of women are single. In turn, pushing black men to date outside their race. Not that there's anything wrong it. To each, is own.

But speaking on the behalf of men, from what I've seen. Some, if not a lot of you sisters, are flat out bold beyond belief and disrespectful. Many people are mad at Chris Brown, with good reason. Yet, some women walk that line constantly. Just because, you know its wrong for a man to hit you. Doesn't mean you should test him, until he do. What is wrong with you? You wouldn't dare run off at the mouth to another woman like that. So where did that heart come from? Please stop taking advantage. Because, if a grown man barked and demeaned you. The way I see most women come off, he would be the utter worst. It shouldn't take you almost getting "Mollywhooped" to know your position. Other cultures don't talk to their men that way. If they do, its in the confines of their home. Not the mall ,or over a friends house. It's a lack or respect, and I don't know where the disconnect came from. There's a time and place for everything.

An it's far worse, when I see a woman come off to a man she don't even know, that way. It's like what gives you the gull? the audacity? Why are you so mad? It could be a simple function, where a man is speaking on something and a women interjects. Say your piece but be respectful, and move on. Some women badger, loud and over-talk a man to be heard. There's not need for that. If your point has a purpose, it will be heard. I don't care if your sitting next to my man, an he says the sky is red. You can tell him its blue. But, it's not your place to yell and scream till he understands. Or we will have an issue! Don't reprimand my man. Cause, then I'm going to really piss you off. I'll say the sky is red bitch. Thee End! An trust, you and I will not match wits! I'll inform him on any matters he isn't willing to understand... ok? lmao

Some women don't know what battles to fight or how to talk. Everything isn't a yelling contest. An if you don't know that man, why are you so quick to disrespect him. You shouldn't do what you preach isn't right.

George Lopez Steals Conan O'Brien's Funny

2010-01-11T23:28:00.004-05:00

In the months leading up to 2K9, Conan had this on going joke that randomly pop up throughout some episodes. Detailing the future and how it changes "In The Year 2000"

I hate comedians that aren't ORIGINAL! An if you've seen George Lopez's show, Conan O'brien is the bud of many jokes!

Creepy Little White Girl

George Lopez | MySpace Video

Marc Clark

2010-01-11T14:08:00.009-05:00

Ladies & Gentlemen, I give you...

MARC CLARK

MARKCLARK.COM

I love when I see people I've known, become what they've envisioned. I remember laughing with a young Marc at Morgan State University (MSU) fashion show practice. Now his life's a fashion show. Leaving Maryland to pursue fashion in N.Y. His drive is unmatched! Already making a name for himself at 23, he's sure to wow the industry. Twitter MARC!

Silver Leopard Brooch
Rihanna
Sporting the Leopard Print
White Leopard Print Brooch
Green Bow Tie Brooch
Brown Snake Skin Brooch
Bronze Bow Tie Black Stones

Choosy Lover!

2010-01-11T10:18:00.009-05:00

I can be all that and more ...for?

One thing I admire from most men, is the willingness "Not" to give their entire self to any and everyone. A lot of women complain and complain about how they're drained, from this and that man. Does every man deserve the best of you? You deserve what you get, if you say yes. Going into any situation, you kind of have a sense of what you expect.

If your having fun then, you should go in with a lighthearted mentality. There should be no impromptu marriage speeches. I know your clocks ticking, but so are his nerves by this point. You need to back up and off. The need for structure and babies is a personal problem, your now extending outside its reach. Progression takes "TIME" and "Communication" not demanding stipulations. If your not all ready in a serious relationship pushing for the same goals, don't get beside yourself. Because most likely one party will be confused while another hurt.

Your whole objective from the start should be getting to know someone. Then, on what levels you plan to go with that person. It seems easy for men to decipher their friends, kid sisters, f*ck buddies, wifey etc. Soo why is it that, so many women bare their soul to every man they like. Every guy can't be the one. An it shouldn't take a Dr. visit saying you have Chlamydia, being the first sign. If a man values you, he will let you know. They don't play with their feelings. Unlike most women they take their time, before they extend themselves. They understand, it's a lot at steak. Letting someone into your world, life and heart is a tumultuous process.

I'm so loving, open, honest and giving with that one I love. That its so easy to shut it off, in all facets not pertaining to him. I'll go that extra mile.. for Him! I'll bear that extra burden.. for Him! The light of joy will lift up my heart.. FOR HIM! Not them!!! You have to understand that everyone else is JUST anyone else. Everyone doesn't deserve the same treatment. An when that processes, you won't be off crying every year due to someone else. Choose wisely!

DMV Produces Ungrateful Men

2010-01-10T01:43:00.010-05:00

When will people learn today's actions affect tomorrows decisions?

I still don't know why men are so archaic and trivial with their process of thinking. It's baffling in 2010. What separates us from animals is the ability to think an process thoughts. So why are we still ass backwards in life? I don't know. When a grown man is incapable of controlling their sexual desire, its beyond unsettling and disheartening but some what pathetic. Women are hit on countless times, day after day. Offered gifts and luxuries beyond our dreams, though yet we decline.

I've never seen such a self imposed, self absorbed, self professed set of men. It's ridiculous. With no desire to commit, account and attain any emotional substance or purpose. Bearing no consequence or guilt, they'll manipulate most. Knowing their worth, is far unfortunate than one could understand. They'll have sex with any, discarding many at a whim. Feelings are a word, if not often a joke. An if you speak up, your castrated out as an omen. Your not meant to have an opinion or expected to have self worth in the DMV without being considered an hassle. Due to the lack of women without any self motivation, worth or purpose. All in all its been a common consensus, that the men of the DMV expect all and give nothing. They don't know how to treat women nor care. An its disgusting! That's why, a lot of women have quit and become gay.

We're tired of going that extra mile that you don't go. I take off work when you never do. If your hurt I'm their to aid you when your there when there's nothing else foreseeing it. My money's your money, when your money's Ciroc money. I make your bed, so the next chick can lay in it. Is exactly why soo many women have gone bad. Why should I treat you good when you can't, better yet, produce the same treatment. Do we really deserve the shit we're being handed???

All I know is, if you had a good woman, an she don't go the distance no more. It's probably because you treated her bad and she doesn't give a damn no more. You ruined it! Just hope you didn't ruin her...

Keep in mind that this is a BLOG! Not a Diary! I know tons of women an their stories throughout the DMV! Along with the very men that make our city go round. Not saying ALL men, but this is what most women encounter.

Young Forever -Jayz ft Mr.Hudson

2010-01-09T11:31:00.002-05:00

I Love, Love, LOVE this Song! An the video couldn't of been executed better. Bravo!

Natalie Ms.I RUN LA

2010-01-09T08:43:00.009-05:00

I RUN L.A.!!!

Natalie

Soo yesterday 01/08/10 I saw the funniest thing on Twitter, spawned by lil Duval. I don't know about you, but everyone who has been keeping up with this seasons "Bad Girls Club" has a united hate for dumb, gold digging Natalie. Who constantly professes how much she "RUN L.A." through celebrity friends and money. I don't know how the rival started between her an the comedian, but I sure saw how it ended.

Jan. 8, 2010 Directly from Lil Duval

{Start from the bottom an work your way up! lmao}

hey #basicassnatalie wit all that shit i said i'll still hit u tho..........WIT A FUCKING CAR
Hey #basicassnatalie u think u can get yo chin to retweet my song thats about u? http://omg.ly/Ax4f
to all yall thats saying to yoself "all i gotta do is fuck wit duval and he'll make me a trending topic" u a fucking loser as well
hey #basicassnatalie I don't care how many shows oxygen gives u you'll always be a loser in life
hey #basicassnatalie chris brown said he did not fuck u but he did shoot off on yo chin and I believe him
hey #basicassnatalie why is yo page private and yo pussy public?
#basicassnatalie chin is the hunchback in notre dame
is that moon pie face bitch still talking?
yea she aint doin shit no way RT @McBreezy_ @lilduval can u get #basicassnatalie to come shovel this snow out my yard w/ her chin
hey #basicassnatalie precious just direct message me and said she'd rather look biggie than look like u
#basicassnatalie chin shouldve won the heisman trophy this year
http://twitpic.com/x8awa - #basicassnatalie i didnt know u was a superhero? u are more famous than me. SUPER CHIN!
RT @TahjG: @lilduval #basicassnatalie looks like the cartoon network character Johnny bravo! Lol
hey #basicassnatalie (in my joe clark from lean on me voice): "youll be dead in a year"
a bitch who's built like a russian police RT @JojoTheFuture @lilduval who is #basicassnatalie
hey #basicassnatalie tiger woods fucked alot of raggedy hoes and still wouldnt fuck u
Hey #basicassnatalie did u get ass shots in Yo chin?
#basicassnatalie #basicassnatalie #basicassnatalie #basicassnatalie
I'm bout to show y'all when tryn to be famous goes wrong

Natalie PUNCHES Kendra

Freeway & Chill Moody

2010-01-08T01:17:00.004-05:00

Congrats on making your rounds Moody!
Hard work pays off!!!

"The balance got lost somewhere" ~C.M

The BODYSUIT!

2010-01-07T22:29:00.010-05:00

I'm sorry but THIS Trend Must Fade.....

It was cute at first but its CLEARLY been over done! Sorry TRINA!!! ::Click Video::

An we've all seen some parody of someone wearing the "Single Ladies" suit at some point in time. ::Parody HERE::

An if ass is the next trend... well Britney Beat y'all too it!

Bitter Boy Blues

2010-01-07T16:27:00.007-05:00

Boooo Fck'n Who!

You can't get the Boo you choose
Cuz she loves that OTHER Dude!
Soo sing those Bitter Boy Blues....

In the past few months, me an my girlfriends ran into a peculiar strand of men in the DMV. They were ambitious, charming, outgoing and aggressive. Most of you would say "Hey! I need a man like that". An that's what they thought at first, until time begun to "WEED" them out. Overly aggressive and pushy in all instances. There's a difference for fighting for what you want and harassing. It's fine to be out going but only as much as both are willing to be. Becoming Forceful, Badgering, or placing Guilt in order to get the one you want is ridiculous. Some men aren't comfortable with walking away knowing they weren't able to attain that person.

It may not have nothing to do with that man, in reasons why she didn't want him. She could of possibly been overwhelmed by life. Enjoying your company doesn't equated to seeking a relationship. She could of just very well left a relationship. Wherein she's mostly likely still in love with that person. Whether in denial about going back or proceeding forward, its "HER" call. No matter how good y'all conversation was, or how great you proclaim you'll treat her. Love trumps any forms of "Like" .....PERIOD! "I'm in Like with you", doesn't compare to "I'm in Love with him!"

Some men can self destruct, with no help but there own. Depending on the female and her turn offs! I don't care how "Fly" you think you are, you may not be her type. Just because you had what it takes to get my attention, doesn't mean you had what it took to keep it. Reasons vary according to the individuals, but "NO-ONES" exempt. Get OVER YOURSELF!!! It's not the end of the world if you don't get the girl. Stop stomping around like someone stole your bike. She was never yours to begin with. Women fight over men constantly, due to the ratio of men/women. Were costumed to regrouping and moving forward everyday, on a broken heart. So why must it be unheard of from men.

Things that it is "NOT OK" when you can't get the girl you want...
1) Talk shit about the Man she choose.
2) Snitch on things he may do out of spite.
{You can tell me but your still a HATER lol}
3) Become uncomfortably angry with that Woman
4) Curse and disrespect that woman because you can't have her

Just GROW-UP! On To The Next One....

January "LesBiHonest" Crush! 2010

2010-01-06T19:56:00.010-05:00

"ELLE UK" Cover Natalie Portman | February 2010

This 28yr old Seductress, exudes Intelligence & Grace!
I'm in Love with All her films ..."Star Wars Episode 3" and "Closer" being two of my favorites!

Mos Def & Talib Kweli "History"

2010-01-06T19:27:00.001-05:00

I heart this Song!!! ...but I love everything Mos Def does! :-)

Da Fellaz Movement!

2010-01-06T18:10:00.005-05:00

More than a PARTY... a Movement!

An origination of Black Influential Men
"Da FELLAZ"
of the DMV who was founded by friendship, which birth a business.
Eleven Men with Eleven views that expand into unlimited portals of Entertainment.

Mindstream Radio

"Discussing the importants of Mentor-ship and Role Models"

Kevin "Luciano" Perry & Kevin "Scooty" Hallums

Da Fellaz "Social Forum"

"Discussing Life, Family and Relations of the Urban Community"

Zimstone Art Gallery

I know I can't club every night for the simple fact... there's MORE to life an the DMV area which Da Fellaz Provide. Along with a monthly book club, they supply options. Parties, Radio, Live Video Discussions, Social Forums, Annual Crab & Coronas Cookout, Book Club along with current avenues constantly being developed. You'll be sure to get familiar quite soon enough.

Self Destructive Gilbert!

2010-01-06T17:35:00.004-05:00

The first week of 2010 was brung in with a bang... Pun Intended! Gilbert Arenas brought four guns to the Verizon Center. He then jokingly drew them out with another teammate in the locker-room. Which therein lead to his INDEFINITE suspension as of today.

WITHOUT PAY!

It's hard not to speculate that his home troubles wasn't the cause of his misjudgment. It's been reported last Dec/09 that Gilbert's pregnant fiancee' at the time, was caught having relations with Shaquille O'neal.

Email content between Laura {Gilbert's Fiancee'} & Shaq
Mar. 5, 2009

Laura: Just wanted to let you to know I’m here.

Shaq: Where r u?

Laura: In the hotel… About to go to sleep! u?

Shaq: What hotel and what room?

Laura: The Four Seasons, where r u?

Shaq: I just left goin to a party can I come put it in when I get back? What room u n?

Laura: Is Shaunie going with u? N how late?

Shaq: Hell no. I’m back by 1:30. Can I do it tonite and tomorrow after lunch? What floor u on?

Laura: LOL ur crazy! As long as u taste me n make me cum LOL

Shaq: What room?

Laura: So I’ll see you at 1:30 :~) erase all these messages plz.
Ironically enough, Shaq's wife filed for Divorce within that same week. Let us not negate the fact that Shaq stayed in his hotel room in D.C. while his team played the Wizards soon after.

JayZ "On To The Next One"

2010-01-02T10:48:00.002-05:00

Official Video: "On To The Next One" Jay-Z | Swizz Beatz

A Lot of people are saying JayZ is a part of Illuminati. An well.... Let's just say, videos like this isn't helping at ALL! I saw a crucifix with two bullets on the side. Besides the entire video looking Demonic. Smh

Beyonce' "Video Phone"

2009-11-17T09:24:00.001-05:00

Relationship Mental Abuse ...Are you Familiar?

2009-11-16T14:11:00.012-05:00

All is fair in love an war, but in the words of

Rhianna "Fuck Love"
and
Tina Tuner "What's Love got to do with it?"

You may say that they have good reason to feel like that. But abuse is ABUSE! Scars can heal but emotional wounds often never do. Mental abuse is more common in everyday relationships, because it isn't as easy to detect. It can go on daily for years, with detrimental effects. On how you view yourself and treat others. Often leads to depression, drug dependency and suicide. If you verbally and mentally abuse some one for a long period of time, should you expect a peaceful resolve? No! Eventually someone Snaps an the outcome's bleak.

Some ask the question, how much can he/she take? While others pose this question... How could you treat the person you love that way? How could you treat Anyone you cared for that way? I call it the property syndrome. "Its MINE an I can do whatever I like with it, so mind your Business!" Is often the way most abusive relationships work. The object of being "MINE" is your partner i.e your property. You can kick it, break it, do whatever you like because it's yours and no others. It will always be there, because it's YOUR property. In a sense how some people can Use, Mistreat, Manipulate, Disrespect with no regards to their mate, and expect them to remain loyal.

You have one person genuinely loving, caring and seeking to build with their partner. While the other seeking to control and demean them. Nothing nor that person is ever good enough. Even if they've never had better. That person is expected to be there always, while the other should be fortunate to find time. There often isn't a middle ground. One person's seeking to please while the others often "BARKING". An insult or indirect action can feel like a assault, a punch. Like physical abuse with the mental, the person's usually only nice AFTER they've wronged. Showing some form of repent, in a way signaling they care. Often put down on what you Can't do. What you shouldn't of done. Of what he/she could do, but so help you god if you ever followed suit. Affecting every 3/5 Americans, often leading to most single parent homes.

A lot of these relationships can get volatile after awhile. There's but soo much a person can take from the one they love. When you trust someone enough to hand them your heart, the worst betrayal is the misuse of it. You lie on the behalf of them. Your embarrassed to say all that you truly endured with that person. Ashamed that you loved and did anything for that person, while they acted the way they did. Denying to you friends and most importantly your family about this person, they thought else wise of. Carrying a burden of hate an animosity because there's no one to talk to. Being a good person often means swallowing the hardest pill.

Some people never leave that situation in time, to learn from it. It may change them into they person who created them. Passing that hate and misuse of love to their children, family and friends. Falling into a deep depression, running aimlessly seeking love and attention. Everyone knows how to Dr. a relationship from the sidelines, but its different on the field. Be Careful!

"Bad Romance" Lady GAGA

2009-11-11T10:05:00.000-05:00

Keston Karter

2009-11-03T21:54:00.005-05:00

This Beautiful Specimen was brought my attention by one of my girlfriends.
I must I'm very IMPRESSED!

From Trinidad & Tobago this Man is 26

Lick Lips...

2009-11-02T16:49:00.002-05:00

Lick the lips
Sip it up
From the middle around back
Don't.Dare.Touch

Grip.Grab.Slap
Slip.Thrust.Tap
Fight.Hold.Squeeze
Brung to your knees

Tilt the head back
Snatch it up like that
Proceed to go deep
Hop upon no feet

Look!
No hands..
In this Karma suitra dance

No angel can measure
The heights
Of this pleasure

To Court and Dethrone
The chastity home
Slide in, on the plate
No minute, can wait
No second, can pass
In this moment of Lasts!

Kanye "We Were Once A Fairytale"

2009-11-02T12:04:00.001-05:00

Aww it was soo sad to see Kanye make his inner self kill himself.