What's in your Trick Bag!

What's too much too fast?
Do you know when to show your sexual wild cards?

A lot of women are revved up to please the new boo, and show him all what she can do. Food and sex are often the things they try to master. Cook the best meals while supplying the best sex. The quickest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. While the best way to keep him attached to your heart is, through his little head. Blame the media, blame the standards, and blame whomever. But there is a "TURN-OFF" button. I myself thought that giving your all sexually, was a good thing. Yet it's been brought to my attention that most women do it in a sloppy manner. There is a sexual tempo that most dudes abide by.

If your just an after hours smut, than by all means carry on. This doesn't apply to you! But after conversing with a handful of gentlemen last night. It's been brought to my attention that women aren't selective as they should be. In regards to, their trick bag. Men love and seek to enjoy sex to the fullest... BUT!!!! Take your time, before you scare them away. Sometimes they may want to feel as if it maybe y'all "FIRST" time trying such position. If you go on a first date and cap if off by swallowing the park...! Trust and believe your gonna get a blank stare. You don't know him. Lets be honest. So the question arises, "Does she do this with everyone?" If so, then she's just about to be at the top of my sex call list. I'm not taking her and her day-care of a mouth serious.

The same thing applies for back door access. If your just shoving it in without the "TALK" like it's standard?!?! You may get your feelings hurt. That's not the ABC's of sex. More like the X,Y area. Be selective and learn your tempo.

Dare Dorm! FAMU? Smh

Let the Smutting BEGIN!

Apparently this sites paying college students $10,000 for video taping sexual antics. But a further look into this, an my source found a glitch. The majority of these videos, are from Pornstars out Miami. Posing as students!!! A slick way of getting this movement started. Yet unknowingly egging real students, to weigh in on the cash. I don't care what care free school you went to. This ain't typical dorm behavior.

For FAMU's so called video ::CLICK::

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Sex Double Dutch!

Are there RULES to sex?

Or simple
Sex Etiquette
that's more like common knowledge?

Sex is a great tool used between two parties. It relieves stress, tension, joy, pain, love etc... Yet at the very same time, it can get quite messy. Only when doing what maybe presumed as doing too much. Too much of anything can be bad. A gluttony, as you may say. The more isn't always the merrier. I don't know about you, but I'm not a fan of sexual double dutch. Intricate they maybe, both have quite different variables. Your most likely to bruise yourself in one, while harming countless in another.

Lets skip the basic, "You Cheat! You Get Caught" gig. No one really cares about that really. If I cheat or step out, it's because I wanted too. An odds is, you did too! You were curious, you were horny, but whatever they case maybe you weren't "Lonely". I'm talking about the situations more detrimental. I always thought a Stupid, Ignorant Man was a Dangerous Man. An more than lately, I'm proven right time an time again. Whoever said mommas baby, papas maybe is a mutha fck'n lie! Nothing's worse than having a baby by a RANDOM!

I don't know about you, but it's hard to believe that "I wore a Condom" excuse. I'm a woman with many women friends an associates. Hundreds of women upon women, an not ONE single woman got pregnant while using some form of protection. Even the pull out method works! Even though I do not, by all means advise. I'm just saying! You pretty much had a planned pregnancy. Cause when you have sex w/o a condom or a pill and you leave "IN"... Umm it sounds planned to me. It's even worse when your as reckless to not stop. It's even more embarrassing for women, and disgusting. I'm sorry to say. But you should never be in a situation that you don't know who your child's father is. An if shit happens, then at least it should be a toss up of one or the other. Not three, through a line of people.

It seems lately, I've seen a rash of unexpected baby fathers. I know a man who had a one night stand. Had a baby, and flat out moved out of the state. A girl who didn't tell the father till WELL after the baby was born. A guy who got two women pregnant at the exact same time, and pretty much denied one child an claimed the other. I guess grandma, can only handle one shock at a time. It's just that sexual double dutch is irresponsible. Soo many people judge a woman for her sexual partners when its just as nasty for a man.

There are plenty men that have a lot of sex, and don't get tested. Can you talk about passing the Chlamydia please. A dick might as well be a gun to some. A man's in jail awaiting execution right now. For having 10 girlfriends, that he all gave AIDS to. Sadly they all loved him, thinking they were the only one. An blindly, he didn't know because he never got tested. Just be smart, and more responsible.

Oh you HATE him now, but you Still let him fck!

Now Ladies...........Really!?!?

I'm still laughing at the hilarity of some things people do. Comical even!
{In my MSU tone "Whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy Would You EVEN"}

Why Bash A Man AFTER You Fuck Him?

If you bash his sexual performance after the fact then, that I understand. You can be blindsided! Sub parr performance, can piss the best of us off. But to defame a mans character as a whole, makes no sense. If he was so LAME why did you let him fuck?!?! Cause wit me, if your that wack, you won't even lick the plate. I'm just saying....

An it's soo freaking funny, because it comes from the ones that were so OPEN at that. The main one blowing up the phone with texts and calls. Becoming bitter an crazed is Not a good look. We're to young for that, or at least I like to think that I am. If things don't go your way, then chalk it up to a loss. But parading around bashing someone, is only OUTING yaself! ::NEWSFLASH:: Your embarrassing yourself! Get it together...sheesh! lmao We didn't know he played you till YOU said it.

3 things to look for~
1) If he's married but he says he's separated! Keep It Moving Chick!
2) Most likely if he just had a baby! Keep It Moving Chick!
3) If he just got out of a Relationship situation! Keep It Moving Chick!

Calling someone out WON'T make you look better. It won't take back the fact that you fucked them. It won't make them care, if they didn't even really to begin with. Next time, know who your dealing with, before you fuck around an get your feelings hurt!

BOUNDARIES.....Niggas do you know YOURS?!?!

Ok ok OK! We back at it ladies and my Bitches are Hilarious!!!

Between my BFF Sherri and my girl Tiff, I'm at a loss for words! Were discussing boundaries because, niggas are CLEARLY lost. It's 09,' so get ya mind right! Now now now...children play nice and not dabble in common buffoonery. People always expect to just get what they want, in regards to others. Well look, shit don't work that way. If your whole incentive on taking a women out is to BEAT.. i.e have SEX?!?! then just get a groupie or STAY IN YOUR LANE! Take the roads less traveled or what your accustomed too.

My boi Jabrie got into this debate about sex with my boo Sherri. He didn't understand her three month rule. Which is, she'll wait three months before having sex w/ a dude. Sounds long but in retrospect, that shits nothing. Not saying that I agree, because I don't. I just understand her reasoning, because she's just tryna weed niggas out. I say it goes by connection, an it will happen when it does. Don't plan it, just let things play out. But if your a thirsty ass dude, your just playing yourself. No need in stomping around like someone stole your bike. YOUR NOT OWED Anything!!! Especially my Vagina lmao...Nigga your CRAZY if you think that!

What constitutes "TALKING" nowadays?!?! That term is soo loose its amazing. Getting to know someone an actually "Talking" is two completely different things.

Getting to know YOU:
1) Exchanging numbers
2) Go out here or there once a week or every two
3) Light convo, likes an dislikes
4) Still figuring out what role they will play

TALKING to someone:
1) Talk to them DAILY or try too
2) Your spare time is OUR time!!!
3) We're in LIKE next transition maybe L@??!
4) Where do we stand what's OUR future...do we have one? Could he be THE 1?

Soo..I Stress ladies and gentlemen... DON'T get them twisted! Just because we been out 4 times in the last two months. By all means, don't make YOU and I an US if even a potential. If I'm still getting to know you, we are NOT talking. If I don't KISS YOU...we are NOT talking. If my tooth brush is NOT in your bathroom...WE DO NOT Talk!!! If I talk to you, than I talk to NO ONE else cuz I'm tryna see where WE are going. If we didn't have that discussion about US as a NOW... with BOTH parties on the same page, then WE don't exist. I'm straight, I don't know about you. I'm trying to get to know someone and decipher the bullshit along the way.

Sex is not a given. An with the STD an Aids rate in D.C., what's the damn rush. I KNOW my status but nigga I don't know yours. DO YOU!?!? An its a way you go about things, an interact with women. If I feel disrespect than Fuck You! an I don't even curse at men....HONESTLY! But if I feel disrespected cuz your being THIRSTY...its just like "This Can't be life".. Nigga you can't be Serious. An if soo then, KICK ROCKS (K.R. like Lou says), cuz you showing ya colors, an hangging yourself. I don't rush to Bed NO ONE, an your no different.

An if your Not a Creep or plain Press, you wouldn't stress it. If you do, you won't get the woman you want, by Bashing! Tisk tisk tisk... Especially if you want or care for her.

WACK SEX! ....Can you relate?

This is NOT me obviously!!! lmfao (A faithful reader asked) But, I definitely can relate.

If I get EXCITED, I want to Climax!

I don't know about you, but I don't have sex for sport. I know whoever I'm with will be pleased, but will I? I know plenty of girls who deal with guys who are HORRIBLE in bed! Its frankly pathetic, if you know someone who strokes like a virgin or worse.....

The crazy ones, are the guys that sincerely think they're great (an we know how you love to say your the best) an when its all over, your like WTF just happened! Did he just come? This is not turning me on? This shit hurts? Can he find a rhythm? Where's the foreplay? You call that foreplay??? You can't be serious....

The sad part about it is sometimes is, we already expect it to be wack, but we give you some anyway because we love you or care. Its hard if your partner is the worst in bed. Women are programed to not bash an hurt a man's ego, especially when it comes to sex. That's exactly why there is a term "FAKED IT" out there. When you just want him to hurry up an get the hell off you, you moan an make those sounds that he needs to hear, to hurry him up. I've never been w/ a man who've hadn't climaxed, to bad they can't say the same. When I was younger, I heard some women never felt that sensation, an it baffled me. Now I understand how that could be true.

There are alot of men who are just lazy and inexperienced. I'm not talking about how many partners but, what it takes to fulfill them. Guys watch a porn or talk to there friends, an figure that's how they should touch you, to give you what you need. But understand, your friends girl is NOT your girl, and that might not work for her. Or you maybe doing it the wrong way, in regards to how she likes it. Get off your ass an put in some work! I can't lie, that personally disgusts me, because it makes you change your perception of someone. Seriously, especially if I voice my opinion, an you come with that again an again. Its only but so much, love can compensate for, before your on you own an you can't get me wet anymore. Till I have to blame it on being tired, time of the month or whatever. An the only reason for me continuing to fulfill your needs and a inkling of mines, is not not have sex with someone else! That's speaking for most women.

Just because, you do a lil something once or twice a year, really means nothing in retrospect. Would you like it if your girl pleased you on holidays, an flat backed all year round?