Sunday, July 11, 2010

Friendship & Love! Do you Compromise?

Ok soooo ..its been awhile. I know... I know... Lls An now, I have so much to discuss. But, that's all in due time. So on this lovely Sunday morning, I'll be light and hit the FRIENDSHIP button.
"How many of us have them?

Some bonds formulated, just can't be broken. They should be cherished, because they're chosen. Your given a family. You select your friends! Regardless of loss or success, your friends ride the waves of your stress. They love and accept you, good and bad. But in order to attain such companionship, you must carry the qualities it entails. You can't be out here, shady as shit and expect companionship. Trust takes forever to earn, an instant to lose.

People get in relationships, and disconnect from the world. Love should never make you choose. If a person don't respect your friends, they don't respect you. An there will ALWAYS be a problem because of it. The person you love, should never have spiteful ways. You did exist before them ....right? So why dismantle, the very foundations you've made?

Well over 13yrs, me and my bestfriend has had a couple of sayings...

"Two Bitches, are better than One!"

"She was here Before, she is here Through and if need be, After YOU!"

Even when your wrong, a "GOOD" friend steers you right. Anyone can just be there, but a good friend is honest and holds no punches. A friend doesn't have to like your mate, but they'll respect them. They'll be happy for your happiness. Just don't compromise your character, for the things your going after. Because if one collapse... who will give a damn?

At the end of the day, friends and lovers combine through time. With family and kids, your haves are now his. There should be no eye balling during the holidays, or functions. An if there is, than somethings wrong. An you've lost your fight, before it could ever be won. Love is about compromise. That doesn't mean for your ass, to be out every night with your drunk friends. Or just waving with a glance at his/her friends as a form of acknowledgment.

I just see so many situations that will never get better, because compromise is just a word people use with no filler.

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