Monday, November 16, 2009

Relationship Mental Abuse ...Are you Familiar?

All is fair in love an war, but in the words of
Rhianna "Fuck Love"
Tina Tuner "What's Love got to do with it?"

You may say that they have good reason to feel like that. But abuse is ABUSE! Scars can heal but emotional wounds often never do. Mental abuse is more common in everyday relationships, because it isn't as easy to detect. It can go on daily for years, with detrimental effects. On how you view yourself and treat others. Often leads to depression, drug dependency and suicide. If you verbally and mentally abuse some one for a long period of time, should you expect a peaceful resolve? No! Eventually someone Snaps an the outcome's bleak.

Some ask the question, how much can he/she take? While others pose this question... How could you treat the person you love that way? How could you treat Anyone you cared for that way? I call it the property syndrome. "Its MINE an I can do whatever I like with it, so mind your Business!" Is often the way most abusive relationships work. The object of being "MINE" is your partner i.e your property. You can kick it, break it, do whatever you like because it's yours and no others. It will always be there, because it's YOUR property. In a sense how some people can Use, Mistreat, Manipulate, Disrespect with no regards to their mate, and expect them to remain loyal.

You have one person genuinely loving, caring and seeking to build with their partner. While the other seeking to control and demean them. Nothing nor that person is ever good enough. Even if they've never had better. That person is expected to be there always, while the other should be fortunate to find time. There often isn't a middle ground. One person's seeking to please while the others often "BARKING". An insult or indirect action can feel like a assault, a punch. Like physical abuse with the mental, the person's usually only nice AFTER they've wronged. Showing some form of repent, in a way signaling they care. Often put down on what you Can't do. What you shouldn't of done. Of what he/she could do, but so help you god if you ever followed suit. Affecting every 3/5 Americans, often leading to most single parent homes.

A lot of these relationships can get volatile after awhile. There's but soo much a person can take from the one they love. When you trust someone enough to hand them your heart, the worst betrayal is the misuse of it. You lie on the behalf of them. Your embarrassed to say all that you truly endured with that person. Ashamed that you loved and did anything for that person, while they acted the way they did. Denying to you friends and most importantly your family about this person, they thought else wise of. Carrying a burden of hate an animosity because there's no one to talk to. Being a good person often means swallowing the hardest pill.

Some people never leave that situation in time, to learn from it. It may change them into they person who created them. Passing that hate and misuse of love to their children, family and friends. Falling into a deep depression, running aimlessly seeking love and attention. Everyone knows how to Dr. a relationship from the sidelines, but its different on the field. Be Careful!

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Keston Karter

This Beautiful Specimen was brought my attention by one of my girlfriends.
I must I'm very IMPRESSED!

From Trinidad & Tobago this Man is 26

Monday, November 2, 2009

Lick Lips...

Lick the lips
Sip it up
From the middle around back

Brung to your knees

Tilt the head back
Snatch it up like that
Proceed to go deep
Hop upon no feet

No hands..
In this Karma suitra dance

No angel can measure
The heights
Of this pleasure

To Court and Dethrone
The chastity home
Slide in, on the plate
No minute, can wait
No second, can pass
In this moment of Lasts!

Kanye "We Were Once A Fairytale"

Aww it was soo sad to see Kanye make his inner self kill himself.

Sex Double Dutch!

Are there RULES to sex?
Or simple
Sex Etiquette
that's more like common knowledge?

Sex is a great tool used between two parties. It relieves stress, tension, joy, pain, love etc... Yet at the very same time, it can get quite messy. Only when doing what maybe presumed as doing too much. Too much of anything can be bad. A gluttony, as you may say. The more isn't always the merrier. I don't know about you, but I'm not a fan of sexual double dutch. Intricate they maybe, both have quite different variables. Your most likely to bruise yourself in one, while harming countless in another.

Lets skip the basic, "You Cheat! You Get Caught" gig. No one really cares about that really. If I cheat or step out, it's because I wanted too. An odds is, you did too! You were curious, you were horny, but whatever they case maybe you weren't "Lonely". I'm talking about the situations more detrimental. I always thought a Stupid, Ignorant Man was a Dangerous Man. An more than lately, I'm proven right time an time again. Whoever said mommas baby, papas maybe is a mutha fck'n lie! Nothing's worse than having a baby by a RANDOM!

I don't know about you, but it's hard to believe that "I wore a Condom" excuse. I'm a woman with many women friends an associates. Hundreds of women upon women, an not ONE single woman got pregnant while using some form of protection. Even the pull out method works! Even though I do not, by all means advise. I'm just saying! You pretty much had a planned pregnancy. Cause when you have sex w/o a condom or a pill and you leave "IN"... Umm it sounds planned to me. It's even worse when your as reckless to not stop. It's even more embarrassing for women, and disgusting. I'm sorry to say. But you should never be in a situation that you don't know who your child's father is. An if shit happens, then at least it should be a toss up of one or the other. Not three, through a line of people.

It seems lately, I've seen a rash of unexpected baby fathers. I know a man who had a one night stand. Had a baby, and flat out moved out of the state. A girl who didn't tell the father till WELL after the baby was born. A guy who got two women pregnant at the exact same time, and pretty much denied one child an claimed the other. I guess grandma, can only handle one shock at a time. It's just that sexual double dutch is irresponsible. Soo many people judge a woman for her sexual partners when its just as nasty for a man.

There are plenty men that have a lot of sex, and don't get tested. Can you talk about passing the Chlamydia please. A dick might as well be a gun to some. A man's in jail awaiting execution right now. For having 10 girlfriends, that he all gave AIDS to. Sadly they all loved him, thinking they were the only one. An blindly, he didn't know because he never got tested.
Just be smart, and more responsible.

Ate it Like Candy!

Pinned down against my will
All preconceived notions will soon be reviled
Jilts and shutters eluding the thrill
An uncanny performance will mentally kill

Sipping the nectar
While slighting your eyes
Me tossing and turning
While you ravage my things

As I seek refuge
Try to grasps on to hold
A tongue soo disarming
Is now taking control

Navigating the map
To an unfounded treasure
Casting a spell
To reveal more endeavors

Mind then collapse
Soul then implodes
Voice rings out panting
Meek, weak, no control

Soft an subtle
Overlapping his route
The journey won't be over
Until I tap out

Ate it like a Pro
Ate it with ease
Never knew til that moment
He ate it like Candy!

Sunday, November 1, 2009

100 BLACK MEN of Hope!

Friday November 6th 2009

So many people complain about our young Black Men an the things they lack. Yet in the DMV we have a specific caliber developing at an alarming rate, that's quite extraordinaire. Formed upon improving the everyday hypocrisy of "If you knew better do better" Kevin Hallums, initiated a challenge. Once was just an everyday venting session on "Twitter" vastly spread, to what we hope would become an annual event. One Hundred young Black Men joining to make a change at Hope Community Charter School. A little idea which snowballed into something miraculous.

For more information contact

Food being donated by Food Island Flavors of Laurel Maryland.

Donating 20 Signed Autographed Shirts

Kevin Durrant
Donating Autographed Basketball

Darren Harper
Donating Skateboard Decks

"We are not limiting volunteers due to their race nor gender, but our goal is to attain 100 African-American males in order to demonstrate that positive, Black role-models do exist for this predominantly African-American school."


Young Entrepreneur on the RISE!

Founded 2006 by: Christopher Grace

"Denim combines classic cuts with contemporary styling. Innovative washes and attention to detail are part of our commitment to creating a brand NOT just a label."

I was fortunate to be one of his models at a recent fashion show, an I must say he knows a woman's body WELL!

Beanie Sigel Gets OFF on JayZ

As of Last week the underground has been a blaze with Roc-a-fella's most faithful distressed "Beanie Sigel" w/co-founder

Beanie Sigel JayZ Diss {LISTEN} ~> "What You Talking Bout"

Jay-Z answers Beanie Sigel from la rue du on Vimeo.

50 Cent Agreeing w/ Beanie Sigel {LISTEN} ~> "Audio Interview"

Britney Spears 3

My Bytch is Back looking better than ever and
I LOVE it!

Up~Grade YOUR Panty Game!

I know it's a "Recession" but by all means your bedroom shouldn't be Depressing! I'd be sad to sleep with some of you cheap chicks.

For SHAME! tisk tisk tisk

Stop abusing the Victoria Secret "PINK" Collection 5/$25
Cause now we have to Officially be "OFFTHAT" It's nice to sprinkle it in your collection from time to time, NOT Everyday ladies. That seriously can't be the Best of your BEST! Is it really? Some of the patterns looks like my socks honestly. I just don't understand that with soo many departments in Victoria secret, why so many women love to remain BASIC!

No dude should ever be at awe by my panties because you cheap chicks slack off. No man should ever feel as though the "PINK" collection is the core foundation of such a legacy. Please get it together!

Girls wear "PINK"
WOMEN have "Variety"

Very Sexy
Sexy Little Things

Angels by Victoria Secret


Glamour by Victoria

Back in Action....

Hey LOVES!!!
Kisses from the Misses an you KNOW I missed y'all.....

Now lets get back to Business Bitches!
From Life, Gossip, Music, Celebrities, Poems an Sex, there has been tons to catch up on. I've been slacking I know, but blame my distractions,
suitors and seducers! lls