Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Tight Rope

Ova Der Hedz

Obama the Rapist

RACIST MUCH? or is it just an illusion...?

The original POST of course, went into further details. Along with the controversial comments that followed suit.

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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Capital City Cipher

Shout outs to Mo Betta posting up in the opening an Billy Bang shutting it down!

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Don't rely on your Man as your source of FUN!

Along with dating, there's the everyday problems. Some are battles that are chosen. Others are battles that determine your mindset. The best partners, are the ones that are best friends. Great communication, appreciation and consideration for another. But...

Who's the epic center of your FUN?

It happens to the best of us, especially women time after time. You have a life and set of friends out of that man. Yet it's as if they didn't exists, while with him. Women start blowing off girl time for "BOO-Time" daily. That isolation, forces them to combine their friends an their man into one. All the things she did with her girlfriends, are now shoved into "Boo-Time". Don't DEMAND his time, to do everything YOU want to do! It's not fair ladies.

An for the Bossy Men... It's a controlling mans, wet dream! They'll nurture that 100%. "Baby, that girlfriend of yours goes out too much... Why do you wanna go there? No... I got something better.... etc." To the point everything you do needs to be approved.

But once you've entered a relationship so co-dependent, it's hard to rebuild. Everything "New" must be done by the two of you. Women who give up their friends, make their men the top source of their fun. An that's no fun! He wouldn't like it if she took someone else.Yet he fights every suggestion of the things she's trying to do. Break and compromise. Everything never starts out that way. Something triggered it in motion. Both parties are to blame.

Women will tend to feel left out and lonely. When their man has consumed himself with overlapping priorities. When someone makes you their best friend, it usually requires your best foot. Yet people somehow, end up making their partners feel like their hobby. I'll squeeze "US" in, when I can. A woman's mindset is to preserve. I value him, so let me focus on him. Why go to the club all the time an have men in my face for three hrs? When I can be with him, watch a movie an have sex in those three hrs.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Space In Time

A peaceful state of mind
The things I fairly know
Chapters at this moment
Will be written as they go

By the seams
Co-stars aligning
I"ll decipher what it means


It is not that I don't care
but I know God has a purpose
to why he placed you here.

Nothings ever perfect,
at least the things worth it...
aren't fairly soo.

It is hard to doubt
What you heart truly knows
Fear is deception
Masked with confidence
When it grows...

I leave this space in time
For our souls to merely grow..
When the day comes in time to speak on it
I'll say..
"Babe I Told You So"

I Had A Dream About You

I had a dream about you that consumed my whole night
Contorted my views
Of what I found to be right

You were happy
Even, elated
By the mere glimpse of me

In your arms
I sought comfort
How could this be

Lost in my eyes
As you gazed in my face
Hard to rewind
Dreams are never erased

Pulled me in close
Layed me down

There was this intensity
Without even a sound

I felt kisses
And over my face
Like melted petals
With a gum drop taste

It was soo overwhelming
I got lost in the flow
But what makes me nervous
Is the rest that I know

The rest that I know
The rest that I feel
No need to reenact
Some dreams aren't meant to be real

Monday, March 15, 2010

Tiwtter/BBM Etiquette 101

Everyone seems to know the Rules of "Facebook" but what about Twitter and BBM? People get lost in themselves and do the most annoying things. So let's address them!

#1. STOP CHANGING YOUR NAME.. to random dumb people and things! I should never stare at my phone, like who the hell is this. Over and Over Again... WTF!

#2. STOP MASS TEXT/BROADCASTING GOD... isn't that in vain or something? It has to be for that random nonsense you stamp him with. People just throw his name around for ANYTHING these days. STOP!!!

#3. EMO CRAZED AND IN DENIAL? Men try to come off calm and collect but are a total Mess! Just OWN IT and get it over with. Crying about women and fake friends... its ok to be human. *Extending a HUG*

#4. Your MAIN PIC NEEDS TO BE YOU! can you say *Swindle Alert* Don't be mad when people are disappointed by you. Cause lets be honest, your disappointed with yourself. Can we see your freaking FACE?!?! ...really...Really ...REALLY!

#5. YOU ARE WHAT YOU TWEET! Don't be mad at about what people know about you when you WROTE it. If your a dude that don't want to be perceived as hoe, stop talking about your conquest.

#6. NO FORCE FOLLOWS! People will follow who they want. STOP harassing me to follow you. It's JUST Twitter! Friendships in REAL LIFE are what matters... right?!?! Smh Don't get beside yourself on the Internet.

#7. BANDWAGON DREAMS AREN'T WHAT THEY SEEM! Just because "it" or "they" seem cool doesn't mean it or they are. Do you live to fit in and be down w/ trends? Have your own views! They aren't frowned upon.

#8. WHEN YOU TRY HARD.. YOU DIE HARD! We see you Captain EXTRA! Chill the hell out... your presence is Annoying!

#9. KNOW WHEN TO END YOUR BBM CONVO! Everything doesn't Need a response! Get over it... If you saw that they read it, trust that they KNOW!!!!! Geeeeeeeze!

#10. BE RESPECTFUL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON THE NET! That's if you hope to maintain it in REAL Life! Is flirting and sending secret messages to randoms on the net, worth losing or hurting the love in your life?

#11. EVERYONE HAS A BAD DAY! But if everyday is the worst day of your life... Get the fck OFF the net and go see a psychiatrist! No one wants to see that sh#t, EVERY DAMN DAY!

#12. IF YOU CAN'T SAY IT IN PERSON, DON'T SAY IT ONLINE! Some dudes have soo much courage and swag on the net, but are mouses in Life. Ladies act gangsta, but take it back ON Site. Cease with the facades please, before you get that ass in deep!

#13. @ PEOPLE DIRECTLY!!!!! Why the fck do I see your whole conversation through the last four tweets??? Do you not know how to use twitter, w/o pissing me off w/ your b.s?

Best Actor in "Real Life"

Jimmy Kimmel's "Handsome Men's Club"

Monday, March 8, 2010

Friday, March 5, 2010

Float On

You can get her, but can you keep her?

OK luvs! After my Miami trip, I've been loafing. But I'll get back on the saddle, to avoid any further sass. There's a lot of topics that will be discussed, but today I have one question.

You can get her, but can you keep her?

I'm not sure if people fully grasp the concept, of a real relationship. Grasping, dissecting and letting it settle is the hard part. Once it's processed... quite possibly the best thing since sliced bread. But lets be real. No one's going to heaven, if they're still tricking in hell. Your smile, may of gotten her attention but you deceitful reputation was well earned. An now it is on to the next. At what age do you desire more for yourself, when pursuing others? When do you yearn for substance or the willingness to put someone before you? Some people mean well, but are poor at executing their intentions. Like anything else it takes work. No one is perfect.

A lot of men get in a situation and think its a job. A person is not a job, chore and or hobby. There are no breaks, time outs or hiatus. Someone endures all that, that is you. Your pains, faults, highs and lows. Some men, can hear a women talk for hours and not listen. You can be in a relationship, and feel completely alone. Some men are so nonchalant, that its collapses the very thing they built. Wake up! It's your situation. When a women suggests something for you to do... the term "I don't want to" is another nail on your coffin. All those games, places an things shes done for the sake of you. Just to see you smile and feel as if your companion was willing to go the mile with YOU.. is shot! It's not about you. An can you do it without complaining?

Say she wants to go to the theater, and non of her friends share her passion for the arts. A lot of men would say "Hell No, take someone else". Why should she? Your partner is your friend above anything. Some dudes push you into another man, because he's lazy. And is too arrogant to catch wind, of whats happening. If she comes to you, why push her away. When those lines of communication end, so does your relationship. If you never want to do what she wants. Leaving her to always compromise on the behalf of you. She'll eventually resent you. Women get tired of talking when they feel unheard. Yes you love me but you don't listen. I must not matter that much. Actions are sincerely louder. You can say I love you till your blue. But if your constantly messing up, it don't matter. Your love isn't valid.

If she always has to call someone else, when she wants to do something or go somewhere she wants.... Or seek refuge in others for a smile. What is your purpose? There are a million of dudes, offering sex without the headache. A lot of women do a lot of things without complaining, just to see him smile. That right there, can make her day. Men don't get an award for saying "I Love You" or finally "Committing". Step outside yourself an step your love up.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Bad Sex!

For the longest, I've been waiting for lyrical to post some footage. Now that he has, here's a few reasons why I love him. I present... Lyrical the Lyricist and Archie the Messenger.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Dare Dorm! FAMU? Smh

Let the Smutting BEGIN!

Apparently this sites paying college students $10,000 for video taping sexual antics. But a further look into this, an my source found a glitch. The majority of these videos, are from Pornstars out Miami. Posing as students!!! A slick way of getting this movement started. Yet unknowingly egging real students, to weigh in on the cash. I don't care what care free school you went to. This ain't typical dorm behavior.

For FAMU's so called video ::CLICK::

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