Sunday, April 25, 2010

A Thin Line Between Ungrateful

Is your mate ungrateful,
Are you just not what you use to be?

Nowadays, more so to say the least that seems to be the problem. The issues vary. Though they walk a fine line. But how can you tell? Most often, the ones in the relationship fail to tell one another. How is your situation going to get better, if you lack communication. Copping an attitude doesn't tell someone they're unappreciative. It just tells them your moody and temperamental.

Most women don't have an issue with demanding how they should be treated. Men on the other hand... its hard to call. A man will tell you his limits, and let you find your way. They don't whine! If they're unhappy, they'll act out. Sometimes the biggest resolution is compromise. Yes, you want this, but he can't provide it at the moment. My initial thought is, get yourself. But if your that spoiled, it's not even an option. How about you build him up an do something for him. Instead of making him feel any lesser of a man. If they love you and try their best to keep you happy, you should be happy.

Material possessions, should never way soo heavy on your joy. Both parties need to learn to be consistent. Still chase her and make her feel desired. Ladies, don't get beside yourself. If you was this bitchie and self absorbed when he met you, you'd probably be single now. So many women complain about what men don't do. But could you be him for a month. Work hard, buy him $800 sneakers, go out weekly an front the tab Every time and pay all the bills. Then with what little money left, you can then take care of you. Think about it. But, they do it because they love you and choose to.

Lastly, I was told that love is a constant evolving growing force. It's continuously shifting and expanding with time. So bottom line..... Never get comfortable.

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