An its usually at any age, even when it shouldn't apply. High school for instance, what do you really expect? All you should really expect is, honesty, faithfulness, and some attention. If he has a late birthday like me, he probably couldn't work till 11th grade anyway. An is he really supposed to spend the few dollars that he have ALL ON YOU? Damn is that right? I don't think you'd like being a boy much. Cuz I don't know about you but, I was a Varsity Cheerleader an I ran Track my senior year. So I was REALLY busy aside for school an my friends, I never stressed my man. He played football and basket ball, so we were both knocked out by 10:30. I kid you not! lol It was great, cuz we got it in, where we could fit it in. An I understood that, he did what he can.
But in college, what did/do you expect? Lavish dates? Nice car? Money for anything you want or want to do? Mini vacations? What if he doesn't have a car? Do you support him, does that turn you off? When do you learn that he's in school for that sole purpose to better himself? He's in here now to get that job later that can change his life. That he might not got it but he's trying. That sometimes he needs that money just to get through the week an enjoy his college experience. Instead of letting you suck him dry to fulfill your every need. Just because your pretty, or the next man can.
I'm the only girl out of 3 brothers, so I go by what I see there girls doing that I don't like. At about 20, I told myself that I would treat him as if he were me. If I care for you or loved you, it would be a wrap. Why shouldn't you be spoiled? I've been spoiled through affection and attention all my life. So if he had a long practice and missed lunch, I'd order his favorite food an have it in his fridge waiting. Maybe he don't want the cafeteria food. lol If I'm out at the mall an I saw something that would of look nice on him, I'd buy it. Its nothing! For your man, why shouldn't there be any less. For holiday's it's whatever he wants, because I just want to see him smile. If he couldn't do something that needed to be done, I had it taken care of. If he ain't have his car, I would get where he was. Cuz it was where I needed to be. If he was short on money, then its nothing, cuz my money is our money. Some chicks, don't even leave there house with a wallet if they're wit a guy. With my love he needs not want for NOTHING!
I couldn't stand a chick who ain't do shit but had her hand out, that would down what a man ain't have, that ain't do shit but flat back. It's like, what the hell are you good for?