Wednesday, February 18, 2009

If I get EXCITED, I want to Climax!


I don't know about you, but I don't have sex for sport. I know whoever I'm with will be pleased, but will I? I know plenty of girls who deal with guys who are HORRIBLE in bed! Its frankly pathetic, if you know someone who strokes like a virgin or worse.....

The crazy ones, are the guys that sincerely think they're great (an we know how you love to say your the best) an when its all over, your like WTF just happened! Did he just come? This is not turning me on? This shit hurts? Can he find a rhythm? Where's the foreplay? You call that foreplay??? You can't be serious....

The sad part about it is sometimes is, we already expect it to be wack, but we give you some anyway because we love you or care. Its hard if your partner is the worst in bed. Women are programed to not bash an hurt a man's ego, especially when it comes to sex. That's exactly why there is a term "FAKED IT" out there. When you just want him to hurry up an get the hell off you, you moan an make those sounds that he needs to hear, to hurry him up. I've never been w/ a man who've hadn't climaxed, to bad they can't say the same. When I was younger, I heard some women never felt that sensation, an it baffled me. Now I understand how that could be true.


There are alot of men who are just lazy and inexperienced. I'm not talking about how many partners but, what it takes to fulfill them. Guys watch a porn or talk to there friends, an figure that's how they should touch you, to give you what you need. But understand, your friends girl is NOT your girl, and that might not work for her. Or you maybe doing it the wrong way, in regards to how she likes it. Get off your ass an put in some work! I can't lie, that personally disgusts me, because it makes you change your perception of someone. Seriously, especially if I voice my opinion, an you come with that again an again. Its only but so much, love can compensate for, before your on you own an you can't get me wet anymore. Till I have to blame it on being tired, time of the month or whatever. An the only reason for me continuing to fulfill your needs and a inkling of mines, is not not have sex with someone else! That's speaking for most women.

Just because, you do a lil something once or twice a year, really means nothing in retrospect. Would you like it if your girl pleased you on holidays, an flat backed all year round?

6 comments:

Marie Francois said...

LOVE IT!!
A lot of guys just DON'T PAY ATTENTION!
They think that they're doing something for you just because it feels good to them. . .
Your girl should NOT be saying "Ouch!" or trying to rush you into coming so she can get you off of her...
And she shouldn't have to finish the job for herself once you've gotten what you wanted out of it.
Ugh!I could go on and on. . . LoL
Don't brag about being the best unless your girl can vouch for you! Get some references and letters from happy customers before running off at the mouth! Cuz most of the time. . . we're not buying what you're selling!
Good post, Diva!

-Marie Francois!

chlincoln1911 said...

This seems to be a problem that some males have. Its an ego thing with us. I'll admit I think I am one of the best at what I do sexually. Speaking from experience I know what it takes to get a woman to that point. I've be told before that I was the best they have ever had but I don't listen to that. I look at their reactions during and after sex. And females have told me that after we stopped being intimate. Not saying that I took what they said and ran with it but its gotta count for something. But a real gentleman will make sure the woman reaches her climax during sexual encounters. I know how you females are tired of guys bragging on their sex game and it turns out to be some trash. But there are some guys "ME" who brag and can back it up.

Anonymous said...

Women have a lot of god damn nerve when the man is the one doing most of the movement. Maybe u should stop being scared to tell your man that you like your "hair pulled" hard but not too hard most of this stems from female insecurity in which she doesn't want to feel like a "ho" because she said something freaky.If you become more in tune with yourself your sex will be better!!! Let's keep in mind that sex is as much mental as it is physical so part of the reason you don't enjoy it is because of you. And are y'all Absolutely sure that you are satisfying your men?? Just cuz a man climaxes doesn't mean it was good or that he even just had sex with you!!!So women let's not toot your horns about how good your sex is cuz y'all brag too!! If you had 10 bad partners I'm sure they didn't all conspire to keep you unsatisfied so it just might have something to do with you.

Faviola said...

hahahaha The men I talkin about don't do much of anything but lay down while the women ride...don't think you deserve a metal like all women lay there an take it. Stop sleeping w/ children cuz most women work it...just to satisfy themselves in some way......

Anonymous said...

YES! OMG! Have you ever had an experience with a minuteman? Well I have! He was like, the absolute worst! Just when we were starting and about to get into the mood, He said he was about to cum! And this was like, about 20 seconds-not minutes SECONDS-into it! I was like, WHAT THE F**K! I didn't say anything cuz I didn't want him to feel bad, but it some straight up BULLSH*T! I hated it! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dgtabyss98 said...

Sigh!!!!...lets be real, the only reason why ya'll sleep wit lame guys cause that's all you can get for the moment...not because you love him & don't wanna hurt his feelings

guys don't care what you think about them in bed...as long as they bust a nut they happy...they get there's in whether you got yours or not.

maybe ya'll women need to put some work in yourself...not just lay there & stare at the celing LMAO....sigh

However!!!!...yes, however...a guy needs to know his women & understand her body...but he can only do that if both parties have an open healthy discussion on sex...not just dirty talk...& if you can't work the courage to bring up your man, then you not mature enough to be in a relationship...

has it ever crossed you mind that some men think you all are boring in bed...& while we bangin' you we thinking about that last chick we had that gave us the bomb head???