Monday, March 23, 2009

The WrOng Ni**a can Ruin a Baaaad Bytch!......


So yesterday I was observing a few things that made me say.....Wow! that's wild. So I was catching up with my girls and they was giving me the updates on everyone. Breakups an so forth and how they are now. Then I go on FB (Facebook) an bust out laughing at all these status's. The dudes were HILARIOUS, cuz they go hard. Like "F#ck that B@tch and I'm a do me." While some girl is like "I'm devastated, excuse last nights language on my status" lmao But what breaks my heart, is when someone changes for the worst. Its like a piece of their soul died an left them in the break up.


"Once a good girls goin bad, shes gone forever..
And mourn forever
Shit I gotta live with the fact I did you wrong forever" ~JayZ

Like a beautiful girl with soo much promise who got with the wrong dude, who just brought her down. Rarely had anything nice to say, and spoke to her like a child. Broke her down, till she eventually became insecure. Did soo much deceitful, hurtful things till she lost faith in people. For every compliment she received, he would in turn complain and insult. An the crazy thing is, that the women would never leave till it was too late. An the person she once were, no longer existed.

How does that happen? You know men always say "If your mean to her, you can have her." Ain't that a fcked up mentality??? You would hurt an mentally abuse someone purposely? An women feed into it, cuz they don't understand. Its like "What did I do?" syndrome. Maybe it's me, so if I do this an that, he will change. I've seen the Baaaaddddest Girls/Women, be reduced to some insecure, evil, revengeful mess! An its like WOW!!! What happened? When did you become like this?....


I just want to smile!!! I don't want to worry about the man in my life. I would hope he has my best interest at heart an shows respect in my absence. No one can respect your relationship if YOU don't! I want a MAN that can hold me down. So if I reach for the stars an fall, I would land in his arms an we'll still be in the clouds!!! You just want to be with someone who makes you want to be a better person.

"For this position the requirement is inspirement!" ~ Kanye

7 comments:

Mo Betta said...

The saga continues, i think one problem in relationships is people expect to be able to change a person.

Anonymous said...

I like this post...but on the flip side...a lot of guys want to be that person that'll hold you down. And when we commit to giving yall the world yall take that as a weakness. Like getting whatever you want is a bad thing, and then yall leave the good dude for a dude that'll treat you like trash...So, if thats how you like to be treated thats how dudes are gonna treat you

Jay Julien

chlincoln1911 said...

I totally agree with you on this one. I hate to see the "good girls" dating the knuckleheads. I guess its true opposites do attract like magnets. I guess you cant be so nice these days. The "hot commodity" women seem to be more attracted to the more arrogant, cocky, rude guy than the sweet, civilized guy who still uses chivalry. But once that woman is scorn, I feel like the next guy in line has no real shot because he will not get a fair opportunity. I guess thats the way of the world now. It shouldn't be like that but what can we do about it?

William said...

it's a domino effect... Nice girls rarely be with nice guys.. and vice versa so it's bound to happen that one will taint another..

MyLIFE said...

People in general, men and women, will take kindness for weakness if they are themselves weak. People that have inner strength and confidence will recognize goodness in others and cherish it. The real problem is people don't set clear boundaries in the beginning and stick by them. I firmly believe people will only treat you as badly as you allow. If people would stop being afraid or insecure about how others view them, they could be true to themselves and not let people get away with mental abuse. If you really love yourself, you will not look for someone else to love you more than you love yourself. People that don't like themselves stay in situations where they are treated poorly by their significant other. It just reinforces how they really feel inside. Love you, inside and out, and only then you will find true love!

Horatio said...

I think you are so right about what you are saying but you forget that women have this this called FUCK IT....... and it kicks in from time to time and when that happens you try to find a reason to take up for the fact that you are a fucked up person at hart ....dudes dont just see a girl and say that i am going to fuck her over it takes 2 to fuck up a relationship or you just have a no good dude and thats still your falt cuz YOU miss the tell tell sigh he was not shit from the start and you knew it but he was cute had a nice car and good hair and you went for what makes you feel good and it did not work out

Anonymous said...

the wrong bytch can ruin the right nigga too fav, girls r way more scandilous than men, ive been thru bullshyt over these women and i feel like, in a real relationship, certain things have 2 take place, honesty, communication, and room 4 compromise, its always 1 of those 3 that tend to go wrong, and based on my experience, women drop the ball just as often as men, but they r far less obvious, until they run into a smarter dude who feels like they r playing them, then foolishness takes place and morals and feelins get blurred up, and next thing u kno, u r on ur chris brown shyt, so i stray away from relationships cuz after bein thru shyt like dat, i had to find myself, and when i did, i no longer had 2 lie and b like well i need a girlfriend, thas bs, i need god and then my family, and if the right woman decides to come along, maybe i'll invest my time, or let her find a different mr right, because i can only b mr right now these dayz......